PE Problem

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I've been with my girlfriend for about six months now. And it seems that nearly every single time, I feel like cumming within about 5 minutes or so, especially when I'm on top.I read up on PE, and went through the list of "Reasons" why this could happen or how to prevent it:- New partner : I've been having sex with her almost every day, and this may still have an effect but I don't know as to how much- Start/Stop method : I have tried this during sex numerous times, but I've noticed that I become so sensitive that I have to stop for longer than usual to keep myself from cumming, and that really takes away from the mood and from her pleasure, so I don't know that I want to do that- Squeeze the head : can't do that while it's in now can we? - Breathing : I may be doing this wrong, but this doesn't seem effective- PC Muscles/Kegels : I've been doing Kegels for about a month and a half, and I have seen a stronger erection, fuller forced ejaculations, and that sort of thing, but not so much an extension on my stamina.Does anyone have any sugggestions for me to try out? I'm willing to pretty much try anything because mind you I don't care at all if I cum quickly. My only goal is to please my girl and I can't do that if I last only a meager few minutes.

There are always desensitizing condoms.But, have you thought about getting her off first by means of oral or some other form of stimulation. Then after she's climaxed and still in the swoon, get up there, hump her and get your goody. Most likely she won't mind and she may still be in such a state of ecstasy that when your banging her she orgasms a second time. You could come off as some kind of legendary lover.

Hmmm, I've never thought of it that way. I always spend a good amount of time on foreplay, and I swear the girl has like three orgasms at a time, but even still I don't know, it might just be the "manly" conscience in me, but I feel like I have to get her off when I'm getting myself off too.

It very seldom works that way but when it does it's great.As long as she's getting off at some point, much less two or three times, during sex, I bet she's happy.

Originally Posted By: OldFolksIt very seldom works that way but when it does it's great.As long as she's getting off at some point, much less two or three times, during sex, I bet she's happy. What very seldom works that way? Sorry but I didn't catch that.I know she's not upset with me. In fact, I had her grinning ear to ear last night, but I feel as though I should be able to control myself, and sometimes I get the feeling that she wanted to keep going even though I finish. That's my only reason for wanting to prolong myself.

That you both cum at the same time.

Originally Posted By: OldFolks

That you both cum at the same time.

Oh, that I know. I guess I wrote that wrong. I don't mean for us both to get off at the same precise moment, I just want to be able to make her orgasm from sex rather than just oral or with my hands. That's all.

Originally Posted By: Daimon_Link- PC Muscles/Kegels : I've been doing Kegels for about a month and a half, and I have seen a stronger erection, fuller forced ejaculations, and that sort of thing, but not so much an extension on my stamina. Whats that?

Its pelvis muscles, kegles I'm assuming are a workout for them. And PC muscles do work on stamina, just do different variations, and stick with it, a month and a half is getting there, but you may not see cahnges till 3 months in. Also practice makes perfect.And theres nothing wrong with her havign an orgasm with oral. You can open up with oral, and when shes getting really close, you can insert? that way shell get both feelings.

Continue your work on the PC Muscles, try stopping your stream of urine using only the PC Muscles its great practice. Eventually you will be able to completely stop urinating and zip up and walk away without emptying your entire bladder. The same "flex" is what you want to do when your about to cum.

Really? never thought of that. Some times though I do that when I'm getting closer and it helps me acheive orgasm.

Could someone please explain what kegels are?

For a good explantion, look here: wikipedia

Oddly, the article doesn't explain how you do them. You clench, for a short time, then relax, the muscles you would use if you were urinating and you had to stop the flow (for example, if you were urinating on the boss's desk and he walked in). (It's not necessary to actually be urinating to do Kegels.)

I guess I read the article too quickly. One thing is does point out, though, is to exercise the muscle that you would use to stop urination, but not during urination because that could leak to infection of the urinary tract.

ok i have found the best thing is to get it all the way in and just roll back and forth on her almost lol.. she gets alot out of it and i do too but it allows us to go alot longer...

Originally Posted By: Daimon_LinkHmmm, I've never thought of it that way. I always spend a good amount of time on foreplay, and I swear the girl has like three orgasms at a time, but even still I don't know, it might just be the "manly" conscience in me, but I feel like I have to get her off when I'm getting myself off too. i would be the same as you, wantin to make the woman cum as we are havin sex.. lol. just isn't workin for me hehe. but alas, i will continue to try

I used to be a start and stopper and had the same problem as you. When I'm on top, it feels like I can blow my load within 30 seconds, then the next 45 minutes I'm fighting it, but then I found I could just bust a nut and stay hard. Then that's at least another 15 minutes of full fledged thrusting until I can even nut again.I never thought I could stay hard after release because I could never do it when masturbating. When I jack off, I feel like sleeping and don't even feel like touching my cock again, but when you're having actual intercourse, the laws of your dick change.