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Here's a whole bunch of problems I am have been having and I need a lot of help:

I get headaches daily. Different spots, different times. Never when I wake up.

Behind my eyes hurts really bad, first it was my left eye, now it's my right. Soon after it hurts for like 2 weeks my eye starts closing slowly. It is always a little more shut than the other. It hurts to blink. *blink* oww.

Also I don't seem to care about a whole lot lately. It's like "meh". Or, "they're problem" or "whatever". My mom thinks I'm depressed but I dunno... Honestly, I dont really care, heh.

please help me

If you've had a headache for two weeks, you have to get checked out by a doctor. You can also discuss your mood with him or her.

My mom wont call him. I keep telling her to, but she keeps forgetting.Also, I cant sleep at night. I wake up 3+ times every night.

Then you call him. If you can discuss it clearly on an Internet forum (which you can), then you can certainly discuss it with a doctor. If he then decides he wants to see you, then he (or his assistant) can argue with your mom.Even if it turns out to be nothing, the peace of mind you'll get will be well worth the effort.

Thanks... My mom says I'm going in on monday of next week...Grr, I cant wait that long. It's so hard to concentrate in school and my parents don't believe in missing school.This morning my eye was puffed up beyond belief and half way shut. Hurt like heck.

Your eye was puffed up? Are you allergic to anything?

A puffed up, half-closed eye means something is definitely wrong - it could be an allergy or an infection.

Alright, the eye thing went away. My nurse called it a "stye" or something. It was just infected, but it's better now.But the headaches are still here. My doctor thinks it's because I can never sleep at night. I wake up 2-5 times every night. I cant remember the last night I slept without waking up. He prescribed me to take Melatonin 1mg every night before bed. It's not helping. He wants me to go to a psychologist (I think) and talk about relaxation techniques... I still get headaches every day.Yesterday I had a headache so bad. It was in the front of my head, behind my eyes. The pain was intolerable. It hurt to stand, to lay, to close my eyes, to blink, to do anything. I also had a stomach ache. My mom thought it was a migraine, but it went away for the most part later.

I would change doctors. That's a serious headache that needs more than relaxation techniques.

I wholly agree with Ineligible. Pain behind the eyes (as well as the previous infection) should pique your doctors attention; a psychologist may help too, though (his diagnoses may help confirm an actual physical illness)

If nothing else, just being able to talk to him about it, and perhaps learn relaxation techniques may help reduce the severity of the stress you're feeling as a result.

Still the same crap daily... I dont think itll ever stop.My mom would never let me switch doctors. And btw, I have no one I can trust to talk to. I told one person one thing when I was younger, and blabbed and so I dont tell anyone anything, ever. No matter what.

This may seem irrelavent... but what is your diet like?

I dont have a diet? I'm confused...I usually eat eggs or toast for breakfast sometimes with strawberries and yo-j. For lunch I dont usually eat a lot but I'm full at the end...Dinner just whatever is being served....Does that help?This may be off subject but right now I am just so mad. I cannot control anything I keep freaking at every little thing. I have so much crap due tomorrow, and im fricking sick of school. i get tons of crap from people and the teachers suck horribly.

Would you say you eat healthy? Symptoms you describe CAN indicate a combination of high blood pressure and stress. Maybe if you ask your doctor to do some tests they can tell you for sure.

Yea I'd say I eat healthy, generally.I can rarely find myself happy anymore and I make a lot of people mad. I am sick of life, it's such a fricking waste.

Diet means what you eat, not just what you eat to lose weight. What Sexinfo is getting at is that there may be something that you are eating (or maybe not eating) that's causing the headaches.Your mom needs to understand that doctors are often clueless in specific circumstances, and that, if something weird is going on, it's always better to get a second (and sometimes a third) opinion. I speak from experience.You need to get your mom's attention, so she knows your serious. I'm not telling you what to do, but I might be inclined to smash a disk into the kitchen floor every day until she changes her mind. I mean, not the fine china; the everyday dishes would do.

Yea and then I'd be grounded, heh.My mom wont listen to me. She'll think because I'm a kid I dont know what im talking about.

Something is causing you to feel bad physically and probably therefore making you somewhat depressed. Constant pain will do that to a person. Maybe if you told your mom you're feeling depressed because you feel sick all the time she will get something done. You should be able to figure it out.

Thanks for clarifying for me Steve.

My mom only suspects depression, she hardly even knows. The visit to my doctor was a waste, he talked a whole bunch of crap and nothing was done. I'm in the same condition.Anyways, what is she going to do? Bring me back to the doctor? OH WAIT that would take her at least 1 month to call because she 'forgets'

Well you're what, 14? Can you not book an appointment by yourself?