Pentration help...

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hey. my girlfriend and i have recently got together. she was a virgin b4 she met me. we've had sex, oraled each other, used hands, the whole works. then one day she turned round to me and said "you know, i'd love to have cum during sex". now, usually she cums via her clit, which i've done for her many times. but she's never really came through penetrative means. i'd like to help her out with this. just to note, i have found her g-spot and gave it a good rub. she said it was nice and it was about 6/10 as far as makin her close to cummin... i thought i was skilled in this area, as my first girlfriend did cum via her pussy, rather than clit. if there are any tips or pieces of advice that someone could give how to make my girl cum in her pussy either by fingers, or better still, during sex, they would be much appreciated. very much so.thanks for your time

I think its pretty normal that she is only cumming from playing with her clit. I dont know if there is really anything you can do besides keep trying, she will probly relax more and learn what hits the spot after a while.

hmm.. thanks. is it a state of mind or something? that maybe she thinks she can't or somethin? how come my ex did come through her pussy and my new girl doesn't? i thought vaginas were all the same. lol. is there any tips or anythin anyone can give me?

Have her get on top of you while having sex. She can rub her body and control how your body hits hers, meaning she can rub her clit on your cock/body to get her off. That is my favorite possition, it is what I do. Good luck.

My GF can only cum via clitoral stimulations, so what we do is I lie on my back, with her kneeling on all fours over the top of me (doggy style position, for her at least). That way I can thrust (quite rapidly, and for a very long time - it's an easy position) and still reach down and finger her clit.Either that, or I lie on my back, and lies on her back on top of me. It works that way too, although it's hard to thrust and pentration isn't as deep.

thanks for the advice, everyone :smile: you're all good people. i shall use these tips and make sex much more enjoyable for my girl. i do have 1 further question. i was havin sex with my girl and we were doin a number of positions. she said she was close to cummin, and this was from penetration only, as i didn't touch her clit.. the fact she got that close via penetration, would i be right to assume i would be able to make her cum via penetration? if so, is just a matter of experimentin to see if i can help her reach the climax? or are there any good positions for penetrative stimulation,climaxing or pleasure?thanks again for your help :smile:

iv never cum from penetration alone with my bf....but i have gotten pretty darn close in the spooning possition...cuz his penis is in such a position to where it hits the front wall of my vagina and stimulates the g-spot at far as i can tell....maby experementing with that possition will get her there hope this helps

that is a good idea thanks again for that. spoonin... i never thought of that position.. excellent! i'll keep y'all posted incase your advice (anyone's) renders true thanks again to every1

Yeah...communication is key in this. She needs to tell you what's working and what isn't. Then, just be patient with each other. One certain position will work with one person but not do it for another...we're all different.

thats rather wise of you, if i do say so myself. i will remember that. furthermore, i will ask her whats right for her. the thing is, she's rather agreeable and sometimes just agrees and says "naw naw, its fine" lol. which is grand, but when it comes down to it, i don't need "fine" i need "oh my.. that's mindblowingly amazin... keep going (calling out my name)" lol. now thats honestly what i'd like. 1 comforting thought is, i reckon she's the one :smile: so i've got ALOT of time to work it out with her. if she's not the 1, i guess it'll be fun with the time i am with her. but you're right, communication is vital :smile: thanks thor :smile: