Yes, take that morning after pill to be on the safe side within 3 days.And to be even safer, stop having sex with a guy who isn't willing to wear a condom. It isn't worth it.
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Today...CONFUSING!!
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i know this thread shouldnt be about this :Quote:i had sex for the first time... HOWEVER ... i used no protection...i KNOW im stupid.. but he just wouldnt wear anyhting, argh!anyway..thats not what this is about...but hunn seriously, its not worth your time being with a guy who wont wear a condom, its your body, your life, and if he doesnt care enough to wear a condom, tell him where to go.
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You could go as far as saying that he's 1 step below trying to ruin your life permenantly.
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=/i know i shouldnt of... and trust me...im not going to do it again, my friend said the exact same thing to me...(although she said it with a smack to the back of my head hahahaaha...friends ay??)i dont know why he wouldnt wear a condom...he just said he doesnt like them, and they are uncomfortable! grr! ... ive tld him, in the future he either wears one, or no sex =]but he said no sex then he will find someone else who doesnt care!ARGH!
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Quote:but he said no sex then he will find someone else who doesnt care!Consider yourself lucky. You have learned early what he thinks of you...just a sex partner. I suspect you're worth a lot more than that. He'll learn the hard way. Unfortunately some poor girl will too! But at least it won't be you.
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I tell you this... this guy is going turn out to be a loser who will get a bunch of girls pregnant in his life and skip out on them. This loser is a small fry who needs to be thrown back into the sea. Heed my words. Turn your back on this guy and don't walk but run!!!
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=] thank you guys!hes been a right jerk today...so thats us through!...he sad hed rather have another girl who doesnt care so much and will stop nagging him!im a bit gutted...buuuut...ive had a 'lucky escape' says my friend lol!and friends are more impotant =]just another question... for the girls lolwhen you first had sex...did it hurt inside ANNND outside?like when i pee, then wipe it hurts sooooooooo much! and im not doing it hard... real lightly...even sitting hurts!=[
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Quote:dont know why he wouldnt wear a condom...he just said he doesnt like them, and they are uncomfortable! grr! ... ive tld him, in the future he either wears one, or no sex =]but he said no sex then he will find someone else who doesnt care!You need to find a guy that cares about YOU and not wut u got between ur legs.! there are guys like that.... we're not all biggies. ok.. i didn't see this > he sad hed rather have another girl who doesnt care so much and will stop nagging him!im a bit gutted... till after i replied to the other.. but it still applies even tho u 2 broke up (i HOPE that's wut u meant ...) let another poor girl worry with his selfish dumbness. as for ur other question.. i'm not a girl but my gf she said she hurt on the inside. it wouldnt; be right after it would hurt her a couople hours after and last a a while. when she told me it was the mornign after and she said she had woke up sore and it last a couple hours. honistly i didn't knwo wut to tell her. and i felt bad for hurting her. when i asked some one about it i was told it could be 1 of two things.. my size or we needed more lubs. the next time we used more lubs and she still got sore but not as bad. i told her to get some lub i was told to try and well she couldn't find any. i dk if she was sore or not the last time we had sex. she never said and i'm not going to ask her. sigh i think she knows it hurts my feelings or kick myself in the ass for doing that to her.
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Originally Posted By: alliecatjust another question... for the girls lolwhen you first had sex...did it hurt inside ANNND outside?like when i pee, then wipe it hurts sooooooooo much! and im not doing it hard... real lightly...even sitting hurts!=[ That happens when you have sex too roughly. Next time, take it down a bit or use more lube and you should be okay. You should be fine within a couple of days and don't have sex until you feel better.
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OMG hunn i am sooo glad hes gone!! seriously. what a JERK!!!NOBODY should be treated this way. i actually feel sick to my stomach thinking about this.if you ever need to talk to me about anything, please feel free to pm me