Scary like hell

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I've never been sexually active till my latest GF, but we have been very safe about our sex, i wear a condom and pull out right as i cum. She's been having real bad stomahce pains for abuot 2 weeks here ans there, and she says she's about 6 days late on her period. I'm scared like hell on this =( am i over reacting? how long can a girl go past her period before its "too late"?

If the last time you had sex you wore a condom and pulled out, the chances are pretty slim. My guess the pains are her period. Perhaps they are cramps.Has she been under a lot of stress or been sleeping a lot less? There are many variables as to why a period can be late.

yea, she's been pretty stressed out lately, she's got big bills and she hates her roomate and people at her job, so i keep telling myself its that, but until she gets her period, i'm gonna freak. The thing that scared me the most is i asked her how late she has been on a period before and she said its never been more that a day or 2 =\

The female body is a tricky thing. I remember I use to never be late, until my finals came along. I was under so much stress I was about 3-4 days late. Every woman is different, so I guess her's is taking longer.Just relax and everything will be fine.

alright, well you've def helped calm me down some, so i thnak you for that very much =) But at about how many days late should we start to really worry?

Normally, I would suggest a test if she's been a week late. I don't want to give you a number of days because I'm not sure myself (women can have their period late from a few days to a couple of months), but I'm know it's going to depend on each individual.Check back here and maybe others will give better help than I could.

i didn't know it could go up toa month without pregnancy, shows what i know, lol. We might try a test this weekendunrelated to this, isn't there something that can make a pregnancy test say positive that doesn't have to do with pregnancy?

You don't get stomach aches when you miss your first period if you are pregnant.

i thought that too, but she sometime says she feels like throwing up, which scared us, cuase i always thought that was one of the first signs

After what everyone else has said this might seem pointless, but if you want to ease your mind I'd suggest getting a pregnancy test. Yes there is always a slight chance that the test could say positive when she is really not pregnant, but there is just as much of a chance of the test saying she is not pregnant when she is.If you two are still unsure about the results of the pregnancy test, you can go to the doctors and have a blood test done that will be more accurate.Best of luck to ya!

i'll talk to her tonight about it, its all just kinda over whelming

_i thought that too, but she sometime says she feels like throwing up, _

Nausea usually comes a little later. 1st missed period would usually put the conception date within 1-2 weeks and that's just a bit early to have major symptoms like nausea, breast swelling etc...

well, she took a test before the came over and it was negative she started to get her period a few days later. Scared the hell out of us lol

Glad everything is OK.