Bait And Switch?

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But i must say u did dig a hole for yourself. Women never want to feel like objects, and as much as u dont want to date these so called "fat chicks" ..I'd keep that to myself, cause people take offense to that easily. Next time u see a girl who isnt physically fit to your preference, just say, "she's just not my type"...and thats ALL dont go into detail about fat chicks. Then half the people on this thread wouldn't have thought your a dick.good luck to you man, as for me I've given up on relationships...so i dont know if i can really give good advice on them.

Originally Posted By: takumi10Some guys like big girls, some like skinny girls. Some guys like ugly girls, some like pretty girls. Stay true to yourself, and go after the type u really like, don't waste your time Some guys don't like ugly girls. Guys like girls who they are attracted to. Beauty is in the eye of the beholder.I have not once said he should date a girl he is unattracted to. My qualms are about the way he talks about larger girls. As if they are sub-human scum. I have no problem with him not being attracted to them - but I have an incredibly big problem with the way he talks about and describes them.It's people like him that drive these girls to depression, self-harm, and even more weight-gain.

The questions I had that are still unanswered were:1. Is this a bait and switch scheme?2. Why am I a magnet for unattractive girls? I hardly ever have a hot girl actually make a move on me, it's always a bigger girl and then when I act nice back or talk to them they assume I want to be with them.3. How can I avoid this?4. How can I get the hotter girl to like me and the unattractive friend to stop pursuing me? [/quote]Ok ill answer these questions in order.1. Who cares if this is a bait and switch. The girl you want, is sketchy and gave you to her friend. And her friend is not what you want...SO FORGET ABOUT BOTH of them...they aren't worth the time and effort. Is this a bait and switch? I don't f*cking know, and I wouldn't care if i was in your shoes. Forget about them and continue your search for this useless thing called a relationship.2.Sucks to be you, who knows. I'm not trying to be mean but usually girls who are not physically attractive, are more shy, timid, and low confidence. They can't go after guys who are the shit, and are full of confidence. From your previous post you say your shy. WEll thats probably why, change your attitude and the way you carry yourself. one thing i noticed about myself and i hope this helps you, back then when i was in a stupid thing called a relationship, and i thought i was in love, back then i was a "shy guy". But after things went bad, and now I'm a completely different person. when i approach a girl, when i go out I have a 100% i don't give a damn mindset. And ill be honest, attractive girls love it, they think I'm some kind of bad boy and 1 night stands with hot girls have become a regular thing. So not saying you should do what I'm doing, but its all about the way you carry yourself and the mindset.3. How can you avoid this? First screw online dating, go out into the field and pick them up yourself. Hot girls...Dont use online dating they are in the clubs and bars. But don't think you can show up with a rolex and a bmw and then automatically they are gonna want you. They could care less, they want guys who are "alpha males" WHO are 100% in full confidence and have a I don't give a damn attitude. AKA .."bad boys".4. there is 3 stages to this, i hope you have a pen and pencil ready for it. .....1. Grow some big ass confidence2. If a girl you like passes you off, don't take that shit..omg u know how easy it is to find hot girls? Say screw this and move on.3.Don't look for girls online, go to real places like clubs, bars, library (i've tried this a few times), concerts

Originally Posted By: sadbuttrue Originally Posted By: takumi10Some guys like big girls, some like skinny girls. Some guys like ugly girls, some like pretty girls. Stay true to yourself, and go after the type u really like, don't waste your time Some guys don't like ugly girls. Guys like girls who they are attracted to. Beauty is in the eye of the beholder.I have not once said he should date a girl he is unattracted to. My qualms are about the way he talks about larger girls. As if they are sub-human scum. I have no problem with him not being attracted to them - but I have an incredibly big problem with the way he talks about and describes them.It's people like him that drive these girls to depression, self-harm, and even more weight-gain. Your right my bad, I used poor word choices. I should not have said ugly girls. True beauty is in the eye of the beholder. Back then i was in love and i knew she wasn't the hottest girl out there, but in my eyes she was the most beautiful girl in the world.My bad beauty is in the eye of the beholder i should have stated that.

I think some of you don't quite understand what kind of girls I am talking about her.That link triggered my virus scanner... so I removed it. -sdp

Originally Posted By: white_linesI think some of you don't quite understand what kind of girls I am talking about her.Please go to: to get a better idea omg...

It wasn't a virus it's a website. I've never once gotten a virus from that site.

Anyways google "fat girl angle shot" and you'll see

I understand that. I clicked on it and as the webstire started to load, the corporate virus scanner popped up with a warning about a potential virus/spam or something like that.

It still isn't a virus. Certain virus-blocking software blacklist some websites especially if they reference anarchy or even speak badly about the company that makes said software. That site is in general an internet-satire site and is critical of just about everything so naturally some anti-virus software would flag it as "malicious" even though it poses no danger to anyone's computer and/or privacy.

Perhaps but it might be trying to load some Malware. This is what I got, so I removed the link.Malware type: HTMLAliases: Downloader (Symantec), Exp/JS.CVE2005-1790f (Avira), Troj/JSOnload-A (Sophos), In the wild: NoDestructive: NoLanguage: EnglishPlatform: Windows 98, ME, NT, 2000, XP, Server 2003Encrypted: No Overall risk rating: Low -------------------------------------------------------------------------------- Reported infections: Medium Damage potential: Low Distribution potential: Low -------------------------------------------------------------------------------- Description: This is the Trend Micro detection for suspicious files that manifest similar behavior and characteristics to those variants of:HTML_ASHELL HTML_BINDSHELL HTML_JSSHELL JS_JSSHELL JS_SHELL

I just wanted to comment really quickly: Quote:Most I know have beautiful faces.. AND REALLY BIG BOOBS!! Small boobs are good too ... like I'll ever get them... not into big boobs. My downfall, not so much for the guy. Could care less what he thinks. Moreso about that soccer championship.  Quote:I have lowered my standards several times before and slept with "big girls" and I said I felt disgusted with myself like I was a male prostitute.Well, here's an idea.... stop sleeping around. Big girls aren't some pimp mommas trying to bed the "skinny hawt guy". You made the decision to sleep with them right? And if sleeping with big girls makes you feel like a male prostitute than so should sleeping with slim girls. There's no diff.My fast metabolism causes me to be naturally slim. I don't even work out, well I walk alot (no friggin car yet!) and I'm on a soccer and dance team. But I eat like a pig. So the whole "eating too much" theory should be thrown out the window. I have much respect for big girls and I do see them as beautiful. In my own experience, big girls are among some of the nicest people. And especially those in my neighborhood are proud of what they have. I like that someone mentioned "Beauty is in the eye of the beholder." You have to understand that females tend to be alot more emotional than males. Not all but a good amount, me being one of them. I'm trying to see it from your standpoint but you really sound like the kind of guy I would stay far, far away from. The kind of guy who doesn't know what to say or doesn't make an effort when you're in times of turmoil but keeps pushing to "see you". It really does sound like you just want to get in her pants and have her as a trophy rather than just seeing her as a possible partner, equal. And if you can't even connect with her on an emotional and mental level then why are you still pursuing her? Because you're only captivated by her looks. You should at least try and work on that.And the whole big fat guy losers was EXTREMELY offensive. Like... OD.Seriously, you could look like a god on the outside, but there's really no point in getting to know you any further if you're ugly as sin on the inside. Just saying.

Yeah it's still low-risk, maybe cause they have pop-ups on there I dunno.

Of course fat girls are going to be nice. When you aren't visually pleasing it's all you can do.

And you consider yourself a "sweet" and "caring" guy? I'd hate to see you when you're being mean.

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