Still "too" alone

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i took the advice i was given earlier but it's not working for me. i keep coming to the conclusion that there's some aspect about me that is repelling people from wanting to be around me and i can't figure out why. i know i don't look creepy or threatening... i know it's bad if i can't even make friends ONLINE!this lonely feeling won't go away and had me crying two nights in a row. i get jealous whenever i see two people enjoying each others presence. if i even see two people kissing, i get angry, nauseous and dizzy all at once.i try my best not to seem too clingy and/or pushy when around people.i'm really pathetic right now

Are you me, am I you... are we one?

It's hard to tell over the Net what might be putting people off. It might be something as simple as poor eye contact, or a hangdog or depressive look, or poorly-suppressed anger. Have you tried asking people what puts them off about you? The answers might be wounding, but they may give you some clues about what needs to be fixed.

Same goes for me :frowning: ......but I dont feel pathetic about it and I really dont care if I make friends or not......I have learnt to live with myself and be my own friend.........there are times I feel like hell watching friends having fun, couples kissing etc.

Originally Posted By: SayaSame goes for me ......but I dont feel pathetic about it and I really dont care if I make friends or not......I have learnt to live with myself and be my own friend.........there are times I feel like hell watching friends having fun, couples kissing etc. i envy you right now. Up to recently i didn't care if i had friends but then i saw what having friends looked like and it hit me HARD...

Thats why I avoid situations and stuff that revolves around friendships and things like that. I am a very emotional person and get hurt easily......and some stuff really irritates the heck outta me.It had hit me hard too.......I used to cry myself to sleep at nights but I dont care about such things anymore. I know how much it hurts.

Rather than avoid friends I think it's healthier to just not put so much stock in other people. They are just people after all.

Friends come, friends go, they do bad shit, they do good shit, they shit, just keep rolling.

Originally Posted By: OldFolksRather than avoid friends I think it's healthier to just not put so much stock in other people. They are just people after all.I am a bit clingy and feel hurt easily. I always had "simple expectations" and they (my ex-friends) stood me up all the time.Yep they are just people.......only people.I would rather not start on those stories now. But I do have a few good friends online.

i ended meeting some cool people over the PS3 recently, i guess im getting better

ended meeting cool people? Are you planning on being alone? You know loneliness can be a bitch.

I think OneOh1 meant he ended up meeting some cool new people.See that's a start, well done!Edit: What do you mean by ''over the PS3''?

oh sorry i meant "ended up meeting" online on the ps3

I got it.

Originally Posted By: sunshine_babyEdit: What do you mean by ''over the PS3''? On the PS3, you can befriend buddies online from all over the world.

I think from an outsiders perspective you might be reading too much into the friendships other people have. Relationships are very dynamic and always change. And I agree, you shouldnt put all your faith in people because yes they are people

Originally Posted By: OldFolks
Rather than avoid friends I think it's healthier to just not put so much stock in other people. They are just people after all.
Enter one of my favorite Grey's quotes: People are better than no people.

Will u be my person???

I'd love to. bow

lol, sweet!!!