My boyfriend and I have been going out for over a month now... At first eveyrthing was great, but now...I mean it's only been a week or two where this has happened, but lately he hasn't wanted to hang out with me. Or at least that's the way it seems...He's so engrossed in his games that he completely forgets about me.He hasn't called in two weeks, he hasn't visited me in that time either. I have to make him promise to do something with me and 90% of the time he doesn't anyway.His cell phone is hardly ever on, and he doesn't answer his home phone.Most of the time it's because he's listening to music on his headphones which I understand, but yesterday I rang the doorbell and he heard it but didn't answer anyway.It's probably because I'm too... Clingy or something, I don't know, but how can I fix this?It hurts honestly, I feel like he doesn't care about me despite that when we ARE together we cuddle, kiss, etc.There's no other girl I know of, but cheating has crossed my mind once or twice.I know I'm insecure, I just want him to show he cares a little more, maybe make an effort to contact me some how...Maybe it's just the way he is, I don't know.Please, I love him, I'm head over heels for him and I don't want to lose him!
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Need help with *recently* inattentive boyfriend
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Also, spring break ended last sunday, and since then he's skipped six days (that I know of) of school. His mom grounded him last wednesday which attributed to some of his inability to hang out, to be fair and give him an excuse, but he still hasn't called me!!!!I thought if someone truly loved you, they were supposed to want to talk to you at least once a day...Maybe he is just really forgetful... But... I don't know... I figured he'd want to at least be around me despite his 'amnesia'.
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This isn't love, let alone a real relationship.You've been dating at least four weeks and you said for the last week or two it's been dwindling. He doesn't contact or make some sort of effort to spend time with you. It almost seems like he's trying to avoid you. I wonder how the first two weeks you were dating were like in order for you to feel like you're in love.I'm sorry but you're deluding yourself.If by some miracle you can actually contact him and talk to him how you feel, then I don't believe there's nothing to save really. I honestly think you should cut your losses and move on.
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where you friends before hand or did you go into straight into a relationship?
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We were friends for months before...Like, I asked him out but we were both pretty unenthusiastic about it the first time. I got pissed one day and broke up with him, we didn't talk for a month... Then we started hanging out more and more and a month ago he asked me out.I mean, our relationship now is better than it was before- we kiss, tell each other we love each other, and when we're together we're inseparable...But it's getting together now that's the problem
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Probably not gonna work out. Sorry.
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This guy doesn't sound like he respects you. I think that you shouldn't waste your time with a guy like this. Once a long time ago i was in the same position as him. When my girlfriend at the time (who was really nasty lol) left me i changed and for that i'm glad. The problem with this is the mindset of some guys. We can sometimes have trouble setting our priorities straight but looking back now i can see that it was wrong but for you to show him you might have to break up with him. Tell him that its him who's the problem and hope he changes. Either that or you can stay coming second to a machine which is horrible in itself.Hawk