thank you.. I needed that
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Alone..
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I know it's ruff steph and if I had anything uplifting to add, I would. I think it's just one of those shitty parts of life we have to drag through in order to find our next smile.
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I think you did the right thing. Isn't this the guy who was always a little bit critical towards you? If so, then I'm glad you ditched him.It's going to be really tough and there are going to be times you want to try and work things out. But, trust me, you will be so much better off without this guy in your life.
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it is.. i feel sooo much better already:)
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Just wanted to send an update:).Things are sooo much better (for me anyways). Ive never been happier in my life! I feel so free and happy to be rid of the emotional abuse. Its so nice not hearing about how fat i am, or how much of a bitch I am or how I dont do things good enough or how I should learn to get used to shit..I can finally be me again!For any of you out there who are in an emotionally abusive relationship and are too scared to leave.. get out! I promise you it gets better!
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So glad to hear that the healing is going well. Sometimes you've just got to find the courage to take that first step...amd then everything else just falls into place.There's no point trying to live in an unhappy relationship. You found that out quickly. I'm happy for you.Thanks, too, for the testimony. You may be helping others that you don't even know feel comfortable about the decision that they need to make.
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I'm glad things are looking up for you Steph. While leaving is never easy there is a sense of relief that eventually sets in and while it may not make things "better," in my case, it does take a great weight and worry from you.In my case, while we never really fought or had even a cross word, for that matter, the last year of my marriage I felt like I was walking around on pins and needles and the stress that put on me... Jesus I had no idea how much stress that put on me, until after it was gone. I still miss my wife terribly and while I spent New Years Eve crying myself to sleep the fact that I no longer have to worry about "what may happen or was happening" is liberating and worth the hurt. I, for one, simply never realized that amount of stress I was under until it was gone. A relationship shouldn't put that kind of stress on anyone.
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I'm very glad you are out of that, Steph.
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I know that 'walking on egg shells' feeling, Scotty. Hang in there.
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Dang, It's too bad you put a lot of time into this relationship with the abuse you were getting.. Glad things are better...