why is she avoiding me

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I like this girl for about 4 months now. We talk all the time when im at work or when she is at school she comes to me and we talk for a few minutes sometimes longer. Im 29 and she is 18. One moring i had messaged her and she said she was sleepy so i asked if i could bring her something so i took her a iced beverage that she likes . She said thats nice of u . So we hung out for like 15 minutes till she had to go work . Anyway the past week she seems to be avoiding me and dont know why. I never said nothing wrong to her. I know she was a bit stressed out from her exams and stuff. I messaged her to see if she wanted me 2 come over and chat for a bit . She said i cant im just stressed and will get through it. That was the last message i got for 4 days. I seen her on monday that she was here and didn't come say hi or nothing so i know something is wrong. Why is she avoiding me and ignoring me now?

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she probably knows that you are very horny and you wanna get laid or get a blow job or hand job she probably gets it all the time.

The best way to get your question answered would probably be to ask her straight up. It may simply be the age differential thing.

yeah i thought of the age difference too but who knows. it could be anything. i have tried to message her but no answer. dont know why she has to avoid u all of a sudden we used to message and talk lots and laugh. it was a shock to see her do this.

well i guess she finally messaged me she said she had an aweful week and i asked if i did something wrong she said no so i dont know i guess

@gmcguy29 communication is a wonderful thing. Here we have been trying to guess her motivation (or lack thereof) and it was simply a bad week for her. Take it slow and see what happens.

thx i will try that. dont know what i should do if i should approach her or wait and if she comes to me next week if i see her.

I would stay near, but don't crowd her. See how she responds.

i have messaged back but takes long for her to respond again. we chat for a little bit i respond and doesnt read the message that was 3 days ago now so i dont know what to say and havent seen her all week. maybe i should wait till school is done i have no idea. maybe shes not interested cause if she would be she would message back even if shes busy no ?

@gmcguy29 You said that she is 18, right? That would mean that this is her senior year in high school??? Maybe she just wants to enjoy what's left of it before moving on to another chapter in her life.

No shes in collage

@gmcguy29 college freshman is probably concentrating on studying for finals right now.

Yeah maybe i will see what happens when shes done i guess . I will keep u informed and let u know

Well i havent heard from her in 2 weeks now so i think shes not interested. Im pretty sure her exams are all done too . I guess i will have to give up on this one seems like i am the one always sending messages first anyway. When i asked her if i did something wrongshe could have just told me but i guess not. So i will never know what happend . Dont think im going to message her anymore i might just wait and see if she does but i dont think she will

@gmcguy29 probably a good move

Yeah it might be but i do miss her