I am on holiday with my family and am sharing a room with my sister, so I amunable to masturbate like I normally do in my bed, I am going to try on the bathroom but I am not as comfortable. I have woken up on 3 separate occasions with jizz in my underwear, making me change it, is this normal or because I haven't masterbated in ages? Also I do not remember having a wet dream.
Fantasizing
I am on holiday in Thailand so lots of sexy girls walk around in bikinis and skimpy clothes, and I look at their breasts and crotch. I imagine fucking them, is this normal? I have other weird fantasies that I don't know are normal either.
I am 15 ATM
Thanks
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Wet dreams and fantasizing
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@addict Welcome to A2A. You are indeed in a difficult situation. It is normal for a guy who has entered puberty to need to release semen. When you are younger, as you are, the ways to provide that release are llimited, and masturbation seems to be the most common method. Being required to share a room with your sister makes that difficult. In addition you are constantly stimulated by the Thai girls. It's normal that you have fantasies about being alone with them, and that makes the need for you to masturbate even greater. In the short run, I would agree that the bathroom would probably be your best option for doing so. Longterm I don't like the bathroom idea because you tend to hurry and that could present a probelm with training you to cum quickly. How much longer will you be on holiday?
Be sure to keep checking A2A as there will probably be others who can make additional suggestions.
And, yes, it is normal for your body to expel build up semen through wet dreams if it is not released some other way. Having not masturbated for some time would certainly lead to that buildup of semen that requires a release.
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@readytogo hello, thanks for the answer, i am on holiday for 3 more days, and for some reason, maybe since I hadn't in ages, when I masturbated in the bathroom, it felt better than not all, is this unusual? Thanks
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Hi addict, I don't have much to add to what readytogo said. Your fantasies are perfectly normal but no doubt add pressure to the nocturnal emissions. You don't remember the wet dreams but I'm sure you had them. (We only remember dreams if we wake up during or just after them--we dream 5 or 6 times a night but don't remember most of them.)
I get the impression the "other weird fantasies" might be worrying you. Remember you are quite anonymous here. I suspect most people have some sort of fetish they would be embarrassed to admit.
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@Ineligible hey, thanks for the reply, the fantasies worry me a bit as they are about a teacher/friend at my school and my school mates.i also fantazise about hot strangers I see, is this all normal, but I have one particularly messed up. I sticks on my mind alot
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Fantasies about teachers are so common they have their own literature and porn videos. :) The people your age that you see all the time at school are the obvious people to have fantasies about, since they are the people you actually know; while strangers have a particular attraction in being unknown and therefore potentially having just the qualities you are looking for--for example, you may desire the girl in your class but know she is not interested, which puts a dampener on the fantasy, while you can imagine that the stranger will do everything you want, because you don't know for certain that she won't. :)
But perhaps there are aspects to the fantasies that disturb you. "School mates" suggest same-sex, which may disturb you; and/or there can be various fetishes or sado-masochism or other things you don't like to associate with yourself. I think fantasies tend to range much further than things we actually do; in what we actually do, we are limited by various aspects of reality, and also by ethical considerations of what is right with a real person as opposed to an imaginary one.
