i love my girl friend very much .i have one doubt can u clearify it. somedays ago we deicided to go for sex,and she is not intrested in sex. she like to sleep with me only by touching her breasts and other parts of body but when it comes to intercourse she get a little bit nervoused and as soon i used to try to penetrete my penis in her ,she starts feeling paining which never let my penis inside.she scream as soon my penis just touches it.we never done intercourse, but 2 times i insert my middle finger slowly slowly it get inserted in her vagina as she was felling a litlle bit of pain and was asking me to do slowly .. as soon i withdraw my finger i thought it would have covered with blood as hymen will get broken .but there was no blood and then i beacme suspicous about her wether she is a virgin or not as i believe that she should bleed on inserting my finger to her, she said i never had sex with anyone. is she lieing or am i having false doubt. and one more thing vagina is tight, how to clearfy this doubt, plz tell me
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What to do. u tell me.
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you paranoidhymen break many ways. not 100% sex related.respect girl opinion, and if feel mislead, talk to her.
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Like cool said, the hymen can be broken in many other ways other than sex. Even if the hymen was not broken and you fingered her, it does not necessarily mean blood will be on your finger.Considering all the things you've said, she sounds like she's very well a virgin. All you can do is trust her.
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If you could translate your paragraph to understandible someone could possibly come up with a better responce! How old are you anyway?
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Haha, I like Cool's response. Informative and sarcastic!
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i love my girl friend very much .i have one doubt can u clearify it. somedays ago we decided to go for sex,and she was not intrested in sex. she like to sleep with me only by touching her breasts and other parts of body but when it comes to intercourse she get a little bit nervoused and as soon i used to try to penetrete my penis in her vagina ,she starts feeling paining which never let my penis inside her vagina.she scream as soon my penis just touches it.we never done intercourse, but 2 times i insert my middle finger slowly slowly, it get inserted in her vagina as she was felling a litlle bit of pain and was asking me to do slowly .. as soon i withdraw my finger i thought it would have covered with blood as hymen would have got broken .but there was no blood and then i beacme suspicous about her wether she is a virgin or not as i believe that she should bleed on inserting my finger to her, she said i never had sex with anyone. is she lieing or am i having false doubt. and one more thing vagina was tight, it is possible to see hymen by naked eyes ,,
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Nice try with the re-post! Waht don't you have trsut in your girlfriend? So how old are you?
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d00d what does it matter if she is or is not a virgin?
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it sounds to me as though she is not ready to have sex with you.
why dont you ask her what is stopping you two from having sexual intercourse?
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Hey AverageJoe.. Please don't always assume that the poster is a native English speaker. This person is from Australia and may be an immigrant. It's pretty obvious from the structure that English is not this persons native language and is trying their best.
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If they don't speak english they can use the translater on Dictionary.comhttp://dictionary.reference.com/translate/text.html
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And SDP why are you always all over me? When FaBmx called me a "little jew" you didn't say anything. Of course I say somethign about how I can understand yor post and you slam me.
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you cant tell for sure, for all any1 knows she telling the truth so you just have to trust her
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I'm not slamming you. I'm just pointing out that you can't expect everyone to type a perfect sentence. However, those who do speak english and have trouble putting together an understandable sentence are the ones who should be criticized.
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I agree...like that d_ _ _ text message vocabulary that ppl are using. I h8 it!
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Hey fellows,,,I can understand your issues but try to solve this guy problem.So Mr.SoSad as it is said in different post by different posters that virginity can be lost by different ways not by just having sex with your penis or fingure.But the you also mentioned about that she feels pain when you try to penetrate.I think because it is her first time, it'll get better by time and if you make feel relaxed.And now lets see what the other experienced posters has to say about the "pain" issue.
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HELLO U SAID ..WHAT DOES IT MATTER IF SHE IS OR IS NOT A VIRGINWELL MY ANSWER TO UR QUESTION IS THAT IT MATTERS.. IT IS NOT ONLY A QUESTION OF VIRGINITY , IT IS A QUESTION OF MANNER, DISCIPLINEM HONOUR OF DIGNITY. IN FUTURE U CAN BEAR THAT UR WIFE IS NOT A VIRGIN BUT EVERY PERSON IS NOT LIKE YOU. I AM A MAN OF PRINCIPLES. A GIRL BEING A VIRGIN, MEANT A LOT.. IT REFLECTS HER CHARACTER THAT SHE IS GOOD AND PURE ,, GOT IT...
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If you are such a man of principles, what are you doing tring to have sex with her if he doesn't want to?
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i think u havent read my lines carefully that we are married.. got it.>?
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In reply to:
i have one doubt can u clearify it. somedays ago we deicided to go for sex,and she is not intrested in sex.
I guess you don't get it!
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what i meant is that,, she is fine when i touch with her body .she is having no problem while i am touching her ,, but she isnt intrested in intercourse as she have heard that it pains a lot.but please listen very patiently ,what i am trying to say is that when i look at her vagina , i dont know why i felt that she is not a virgin though she is telling that she had never sex with any one .. but i dont know why..on seeing vagina i felt like she is not a virgin.. well i found shaving portion of vagina a little blackish. and when i closely try to see her hole carefully i found that hole visibile to some extent , i dint find any hymen over there,, i think that hole should be tightly closed and when i insert my finger in her vagina it was tight to some extent.. i dont know what to do... this thing is killing me inside i can still accept her if she will say that she had done sex wih anyone but she is telling again and again that she had never done with anyone. but my heart is saying that she is lieing.aal what i want is truth because i just want to know the truth whether she is a virgin or not.... plz try to understand ,,,,,andtell me the best way to get the truth ,,
