Fall Out of Love

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Okay... So I understand what makes someone fall in love. The ultimate question I've been battling with is how do I fall out of love?!?!

Let's say you never get tired of it.

Get back in touch with yourself. Best way to start is to whip out your resume and update it. You'll get a feel as to who you are and where you want to go. Remember those big plans you had? Well check your resume. Are you accomplishing them?See? your mind is already off your girl. True happiness stars with self fulfillment Web. Everything else falls into place.

As far as my career and direction goes, I spent a few years in deep thought about it. That was when I was a lot more emotionally stable and reserved.Do you think I'm trying to accomplish too much at once?

Do you?

Maybe ... perhaps the cause of my frustration. I'm not focused.I'm a little scared of losing someone I love by losing concentration on them for too long, so I tend to broaden my view instead of focusing.My new philosophy - Time is always a healer yet potentially an enemy

Hmmm...very true indeed.

Maybe there is no way to fall out of love.

That's my belief.

one day, it just happens, you're walking along and suddenly, you think to yourself, dam, i don't love him/her anymore. it happens.

can't wait

There is actually a part of me that believes that if you fall in love with someone but you cant be with them or they break the relationship off or just whatever, you never stop being in love with them..just eventually you learn to be without them and their love, no matter how long it takes to accept that. But that's just me.

I have feelings like that too... sucks though.

Cuddled with the ex tonight... after she got done yelling at her boyfriend on the phone... messed up, huh?Is it possible for a girl to love 2 men?

I could care less about guy. I just want her to be happy.

it's a wonderful thing, happened to me just the other week, amazing feeling, knowing that they dnt control you or your mind anymore. leaves you open to find somebody else to do it.

Alright. I've decided to put my foot down. I'm going to address my problems with her, and I made a list.1.she's the cause of my loneliness because I want to be with her the rest of my life, yet i can't have her... and if I were to get a girlfriend, then she'd drive her away2. I'm still in love with her and need to either approach it or withdraw from it3. Moving to California was only a thought because I don't know what I'm going to do. She had a major problem with this because she said she was moving North and told me I'm coming with her. Her stating so inspired me to put my foot down.4. If I didn't take any action and she just left me without seeing me anymore I might kill myself5. Explain what I was feeling when she left me to go see HIM ... Being close friends hurts me because the way I feel about her... and that feeling will never fade out completely6. Still want to be friends, but if we are, then she needs to stop spending so much time with me or else I’ll never be able to get over her and won't be able to be with another girl eitherAny suggestions, constructive criticism will be appreciated

You seem to have a similiar problem. Bud, I know were your coming from and I'm not sure many can comprehend what we're trying to deal with. Someone help us!

couldn't sleep much. I've been dreaming about her lately. It's driving me insane.

These things with no clean solution are a bastard to live with. The only solution is probably time. Until you fall out of love you just have to endure.