When you're having sex, when you're going to orgasm do you have to like, push it so it will come, or does it just come on it's own. same for other things like when you get oral or fingered. my boyfriend has never been able to make me orgasm, and i'm starting to get real frustrated.
Hey Girls... SEX!
Show him how to spend some quality time with your clitoris and you'll orgasm. Guaranteed.
I'll bet I know why you can't orgasm....because you are thinking about it too much. Its like the watched pot that never boils. If you are focused on, or even thinking in the back of your mind, "I gotta cum, I wanna cum, I think I can, I think I can" you never will. Just go with the flow, and ummm it'll flow.