GRRR!

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In reply to: don't worry about consequences or the future there we go, something intelligent has been said about our culture! well done.

hahaha...that is so wrong.

i think a lot of young teenagers don't realize how precious their sexuality is. the longer you wait the more you realize how much power you have...i mean i've done a lot fantasizing and research before I became sexually active at all, and it's more satisfying being older and not having as much experience under my belt as some other kids my age. You're not leaving any excitement or fun for the future b/c by then you'll have done it all.

put on your Nikes and just do it.

In reply to: think a lot of young teenagers don't realize how precious their sexuality is. the longer you wait the more you realize how much power you have...i mean i've done a lot fantasizing and research before I became sexually active at all, and it's more satisfying being older and not having as much experience under my belt as some other kids my age. You're not leaving any excitement or fun for the future b/c by then you'll have done it all. precious? a puppy dog or baby is precious, sex is all bout sweat, vaginal fluids, semen and various other body fluids...how precious is that?

does anyone actually see what is happening here? these kids are abstanining from sex and these other people who most likely did the very samething as most of us have/had done (pre-marital sex, stds, kids at an early age, etc...) are makeing these boys and girls miss out on their prime chance to fuck up their own lives?!

I am lost.

It took three reads but I get it, its funny! lol

oh, that is some twisted humor.

I think he's saying something like "Don't listen to them. You're the mature one." :wink:

Kudos to you, by the way.

I'm sorry, but if a 16-17 year old guy and his girlfriend want to have sex, 9 times out of 10 the guy will be all for it. Of course, teens just don't think about all the negative consiquences (spl?), and now there are a shit load of babies with teenage parents.

Youre basically saying that every 14yo is stupid, sex crazed and a child. Sure alot of teenagers make stupid choices about sex but so do alot of adults. I'm 14 and I've put alot of thought into sex and I think I'm ready. But judging from what you guys have said, I should still be sucking my moms tit.

ooo, does not matter. You are very young and still very immature. You are just bit too full headed see. When you learn that you are very immature and 5-6 years makes a huge difference then talk. I am still very young, and i am 19 almost 20. Average life span is i think 78 here in US and you are 14 saying you have given thought and are ready....well 14 years old and you have 64 more years to go...Yeah you sound quite mature.

That may be true, but who wants to have sex with a 78 y/o???

im only 16 and 13 and 14 felt like so long ago. I've done a lot of growing in these past 2 years, and I know for a fact I was not ready to engage in any sexual act at the age of 13, yet then again, i had more respect for myself than most teenage girls. The thing about our age group is that we have an immature outlook on sex...ooo, it's a dick, let me suck it for your affection and approval. Most teenagers assume they're in love so they assume the next step is sex. I think a lot of teens dont even understand sex or their sexuality to the length that they could, and although some just see it as humping the shit out of each other to produce body fluids, emotions are involved a lot of the time. I hope our society isn't become so cold and emotionless that things that were once valued and precious are now just shit. I'll admit I can act slutty sometimes, not sleeping with random guys, but flirting and making sexual advances to several different guys, yet i know when to take things seriously and think about what i'm doing and how it's going to effect me. Most teens don't care how it effects them or others, so they do whatever is good for the moment. Our generation is being forced to grow up way too quickly, it's like nobody has time to develop a conscience or look at things logically. Too many kids my age think they know it all, which is impossible even for an adult, yet when I argue with my mom about a topic, 9 out of 10 times she's right. hello...she lived through some pretty crummy shit and can tell me from experience. So when it comes to sex, I'm sure every parent will tell you they thought they were ready too when they first had sex but then regretted it later when something bad happened.

As I talk to more and more people, I feel like a relic of old. I open doors for women, let them go first and do all the old considerations. OOOO got a good poem in my head.Cold Earth of Concrete, Relic WarmthAs the age grows onThe warmth is felt No longer madeFading off into the agesRelics of oldSo few and rareTheir warmth only noticedBut no one caresRelic warmthTo keep the concrete warmFoundations crumble under their own weightAll in the Cold of Earth of Concrete, Relic Warmth

massgravegrl :I agree with you completely!!! I have been to so many perties full of teenagers who think they are acting like adults but are just being more immature than little children. I have actually seen two girls fight over who was going to suck some guys cock!!!! I emphasise the ! ! ! ! !

I like how you use the word Teenager. How old did you say you were, seventeen? See? Age doesnt matter in this. It's experience that makes you mature. There are 10yo kids that are smarter than all of you combined(I'm not trying to be mean) and they have even gone to college. Theres people that are in their 30s and are less mature than me. It's what life deals you and how you deal with it that makes you mature. Atleast, thats how I view it.

I will break that down later, but now I am off to an ENGR meeting.

Well, the "smarts" wasnt meant to be used as an example in the discussion for sexual maturity. I was just using it as an example meaning that it doesnt matter what age you are it just matters on how mature you are and how you deal with what happens. And like I said maturity comes from experience.