I hate my parents

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now is a really hard time for me.I fucking hate my parents. My dad ridicules me and once insulted me to tears for looking feminine. I was too proud so I averted my gaze and covered my pain with my hair. He has really skewed standards for what a guy should or shouldn't do.he never has and never will acepted me for me but I don't care about acceptance or understanding now. I want some form of peace and solace and I just want to be myself. I know he plans to drag me to church and he knows how I lothe that place. I have to bite my tounge the entire time. there is only one entity I bow down to and thats me. Just because I like to shop at Mac more than the hardware store doesn't give him the right to make me cry. It doesn't help matters that my cunt of a mother yells and rants and grounds me for grades when she was the one who made me take two advanced math classes and she is too stupid to understand that my sweet teachers still havn't bestowed their lovly makeup tests upon me yet( even though I ask continually)typical conversation:me:I really need that makeup work from my absenses so please give them to me.teacher: I'll give them to you tomorow.me:but you said that last month.theacher: don't worry i'll doit tomorrowme:...me: give me the damn papers or i'll skin you and dip you in salt!girl sitting next to me: just stop.I don't think I can take anymore without going nuts. what do you guys suggest?

You sound a LOT like me... my parents hate me too for reasons that I don't know... both my parents are always on my case about grades even though I don't care about grades and I (used to) not try hard so I got bad grades... my dad grounds me every weekend if I don't have all A's and B's and that's basically impossible so he gronuds me all the time.. pisses the shit out of me.... my mom... she just hates me... at times I'm invisible to anyone in this "family" ... also my mom likes to put me in advanced classes that I don't want to do... then wonders when I fail tests... go figureSometimes I hope or wish for acceptance or understanding from my parents like you do... but most of the times I just realize it's never going to happen .... it hurts but it's reality ...All I can say is try as hard as you can to not let your dad get you down... it's hard, I know, but at least try. Same goes for your mom..Sorry I didn't have much advice, but I could use some myself so maybe someone else has better advice.If you want to talk, just PM me k?

Your parents love you and they think they know whats best for you, but really they don't. Maybe you should discuss some things ..school...your personal life.. just anything that comes to mind.. Just remember.. your parents are probably scared that they will lose you and are trying to shelter and protect you.. just let them know you are okay

look, look , the guy who bows down only to himself comes crawling for help ...

Shut up

How old are you?

god, seriously shut up. this kids looking for help and all you guys can spit back is "look look the kid who bows down to himself comes crawling for help" when you dont even fucking know him. get a life man, have some respect for other people. i mean god he was obviously enraged while writing this, he probably just said it out of despair and anger at his church and his god (which he obviously doesnt believe in)...it was just an exaggeration. and you dont even have the decency to come back with "hey i was just playing man" or something to that effect.god...is it just me, or is this whole world is ignorant and disillusioned?

Me? I'm 15

wow, i can really relate. right now im grounded because i chose to do my history project on same sex marriage. now my dad is convinced that im a lesbian. and hes sending me to counciling to "ungay" me. and im not even gay. my dad obviously frowns on homosexuality, my mom doesnt though. but she doesnt stick up for me even when she doesnt agree with my dad. she just sits back and lets him call me a bitch. he also threatens to send me to juvenile detention alot, for things like being a vegetarian or cussing. and about your teachers, maybe you should see the principal or something and if that doesnt help, a counciler might be able to do something about that. your dad shouldnt ridicule you, i guess thats common sense, but maybe you should talk to him about it, let him know how you feel and if it persists a counciler will also help with this situation.

ignore ur parents. theyre jus another obsticle to stop u. ur gona be fine only if u giv up and be vunerable to the outside harm. keep goin and forget bout ur parents. and ur teachers. fuk ur teachers. drop that class. if ur parents get mad dunt be around them and leave. soon they will lern they lost the potient of their loving childWe are one big family of people, trying to make our way through the unfolding puzzle of life. We are all connected to one another in the heart. Connecting with the ultimate source of love is possible through discovering the hidden power in your heart.set ur mind free and let the winds take winds let u wonder teh universe

that's terrible..school should be one of the most important things.. and your family should also.. Don't drop out of class and definetly dont have the "fuck you" attitude towards your teacher.. only leads to a bad rep and bad grades! And if you continuously act disrespectful towards your parents they won't give up but will treat you worse.. and wont give you any freedom.. my brother acted that way.. badly.. and now hes almost 21.. he just started going back to school.. and is the most dependent kid i know.. my parents dont trust him and barely let him do anythingme.. Im 17.. average student soon to be going to college.. have a great relationship with my parents and they trust me..

I'm with alwaysHERE on this one

In reply to: wow, i can really relate. right now im grounded because i chose to do my history project on same sex marriage. now my dad is convinced... I think you should see your councilor also. You should get some help if your dad is treating you like crap. It's not right for someone to treat you badly just because you may or may not believe in something.

You are whiny and snively and you should have enough respect for your mother to not call her a cunt for the fact she cares and wants the best for you. Grow up and get out of that stupid stage cause you might burn bridges that cant be rebuilt. As for the make up work, explain it to your parents and they can go to the school and get it for you, and just ignore your father and if you dont like the values they are trying to teach you, ignore them also. it sounds like your in highschool, you'll be out soon.

yeah .. lets see where an attitude like that leads you in life!! Cant even show respect to the people who deserve it most.. sure parents can suck sometimes.. but most parents don't deserve what they get.. my brother treats my mom like that.. im the one who has to watch her break down and cry.. because she feels like a failure! Can't wait till you become a parent.. what are you 14? wait till you graduate highschool.. those are like the deciding years of your life!

Obviously you know NOTHING about me...I'm not planning on going anywhere in life, which is why I don't give a shit about school and am not going to college. And trust me, my parents don't deserve to even breathe after everything they've done to me...So you feel sorry when you see your mom break down ... does anyone give a shit when I break down crying BECAUSE of my mom? I don't think so ... how do you think that makes me feel...And if you knew you would also know there is no way in hell I will be a parent... and age has nothing to do with anything. But I'm not 14, I'm almost 16

i remember that stage.. the "my life is shit let me bitch about everything " stage... glad i matured quickly..Good attitude on planning to not go anywhere in life.. real attractive

Please stop trying to tell me how my life is, you have no idea what my life is like and you probably never will know.This is not a "stage" I've known for many years what I was (or wasn't) going to do when it comes to collegeAnd if you think it's unattractive... deal with it. I'm not trying to look attractive to you so shut up

then don't try to influence someone else to treat others badly because you think your life is shit

I didn't, all I asid is that I agreed with whatever the guy' name was