im 16, 17 in july and have never been able to succefully masterbate ive only treid a few times but i just get discouaged, im 5'3 - 120lbs, and a small dick im only 5 inches and i dont know how to messure thickness but id guess 2.5 to 3 inches thickness,between my small penis size and inabilty to masterbate, ive fallen into a deep depression and am feeling suicide, my gf wanted to have sex wiht me but she was not a virgin and she thought 6 inches was tiny, theres no way id tell her im 5... is there any way to get a biggar and thicker penis even risky methods? and how can i achive orgasm by masterbating? cause i just cant seem to do itsorry for mispels and bad grammer its 3 30 am at the time im posting this, and im tired.
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Cant ejaculate ....
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Woah! First of all, get those thoguths out of suicide - thats not going to help you ar your girlfriend and its stupid to think that about penis size and sex!being 14 i wouldn't know much on the matter, but keep at wanking. You might not cum when you orgasm but it still feels great. this has happened to me for a few years and i only just started cumming. you'll know when you orgasm. As with your girlfriend, thats a bit strange since my ex g/f said to me when I told her how small my dick was, "Why does that matter? I love you, that's all that matters."Don't worry about size. You'll get big just like all the other men are. I'm still to even grow a centimetre!Cheersd00d
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Hey bud, lets calm down first. I understand your frustration but thinking of killing yourself over your penis isn't at all OK. Each of us develops differently and you may not be done yet. Your g/f is way out of line on this and if she thinks 6 inches is tiny...she probably isn't worth your time or effort. The important thing is does your penis work...if so, then nothing else matters. Sounds as though you've gotten frustrated over the lack of your penis to respond to masturbation ending in an ejaculation. Sometimes this just takes patience and continued attempts at it. Are you on any medication? Sometimes that will delay ejaculation and make it more difficult to "perform" sexually. If not, then your job is to keep trying. If you're not using lubrication, try that. Basically you need to keep on masturbating and not stress over it, allow yourself to enjoy the pleasure and focus on that, not on the previous attempts that haven't led to an ejaculation. As long as you worry about the size of your penis and the lack of "finishing" then chances are it'll continue. Our two heads are VERY connected and what we think does impact the response from our penis! I'd also suggest that you visit www.jackinworld.com, there are some interesting tips and masturbation things there that may help you try new or different methods. Your penis is fine bud, there is no need to worry about increasing it's size....and those pills and exercises don't work anyway....just a waste of your time and money. Be proud of who you are and your penis....if your g/f can't "handle" a 5 inch penis....then go find another one. I bet she couldn't tell the difference between 5 and 6 inches anyway....its not that noticeable. We'll be glad to keep chatting with you, keep in touch.
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If yer girl friend is going to leave you cuz you have a small penis, let her go, she's an idiot. And bout yer penis size.... Well I dont know bout that
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Have you ever ejaculated before? Like have you ever had a wet dream?
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iv soaked my pants to the dripping point in my sleep i just cant manually crank the shaft and end in ejac.
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OK, that's great then! That means there's no physical problem with you ejaculating, which is important. So there is some non-physical, mental reason that you are not ejaculating from masturbation. Most likely you are just not doing it for long enough, or you're not mentally stimulated and relaxed, or you're not stimulating the right areas of your penis the right way.A couple of more questions to help us diagnose your problem:1 - Are you circumcised or uncut? If you are uncut, do you pull your foreskin back when masturbating?2 - How long do you try to masturbate for, before you give up?3 - Do you use lubrication when jacking?4 - How do you masturbate? If you use the standard grip method, what area of the penis do you focus on, if any?5 - Do you think of sexual thoughts that turn you on when you masturbate? Look at porn, sexy images, etc?6 - Any problems with getting hard or staying erect while jacking?
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Hey, focus. Congrats on #2000!
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Hey thanks! :grin: I didn't even notice until you pointed it out! :laughing:
It only took me almost 5 years to get to 2000 posts - LOL :wink:
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I have the same problem as the first guy? except I dont want to suicide, thats just stuiped! But w/e i've tried everytihng, and I need some advice of wat else to do! AHHH!
