Victim of crime

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I was recently a victim of intimidation and theft, and it's had a greater effect on me than I'd thought.It's let me see a part of my community that I never really saw. After a little more research, it was a bigger problem around here than I had thought. The city I live in is not notorious for crime at any level, but right now, at this age, I'm dealing with kids that want to feel that kind of reputation.After it happened, I've felt really pathetic looking back on it because it was purely intimidation. A friend I was with called the cops, and talking to the cop afterward about what happened was an experience itself too.Building confidence and assertiveness and all that jazz for me to personally figure out, but I'd love some advice or any words at all about it.A close friend advised me to just never get involved with those types, and of course I try to steer clear, but what happens when they choose to involve you? How do you not look like prey just walking down the street?How do you deal with gang types and people or areas of that nature?

so what exactly happened again?? for starters why dont you just call the cops? If you are really bold you can shoot them in the face...

Basically, I was intimidated and something was taken from me. That's pretty much it.The cops were called that day and reported and everything. All that legal stuff is going on.I'm just wondering how people deal with those types around their area.

we live in a pretty quiet area we hvent had that problem (yet) although a neighbour dwn the road did hve a bike stolen

well I see you are from california. What part? depending on the situation u might be able to just stand up for yourself. Now if there was a group of people or they had a gun or knives, then u pretty much have no choice but to hand it over. If they have a knife you might be able to run away. I wouldnt run from a gun though because they'll probably just end up shooting you in the back when u run. THe only advice i can give u is dont go around the area where this stuff happens. Try to walk in bigger groups. Bulk yourself up so you are less of a target. These gang members or wannabes usually only pick on smaller looking people. I remember my friend telling me how when he was in 2nd grade these high schoolers used to kick their asses everyday...is that low or what..They are nothing but scumbags. If you really wanna intimidate them u can do so by systematically killing them off one by one whenever they are alone kinda like that movie 187 with samuel jackson. But most people end up getting killed themselves trying to do that.

How do I deal with those types? The gangsters.. If your cool with them and dont act like some pussy, they are cool with you. I've came across some pretty hardcore gangsters (Even together) and had a normal conversation with them. The people who think they are the shit, but arn't. They usually wont mess with me. If they do, its usually from a distance and when I start towards them, there gone. So I guess I dont really have any problems... lol

Yah thats the same for me, i mean im not into that gang shti at all but im alright with some people in gangs and that are acciated with gangs. But some of them will turn around and fuck you in the ass if you do something wrong or react wrong

It's kinda funny where I used to live (Sweden). The rate of crime was kinda high at night at the subways but the strange thing is not a single, i repeat, not a single Asian ever became a victim. I guess it might be due to that most Swedes view Asians like Kung Fu masters or something. . As for your problem, unless you are in a bigger and more respected gang, I would not try to confront them. If they want your money give it to them. Seriously, $$$ isn't worth risking your life. And next time, try staying in public areas and don't stray into their "territories".Where I live in now(Thailand), it's really all "gangsta" style and all, people seem to be crazy about this hip-hop way of life. Well, I don't enjoy living in this gangsta area and all but sometimes I need to go through their territory, and that's when stuff get really scary. I usually bring along a knife, in case, and wear the proper wear. And if shit(excuse me) goes wrong, RUN!Not much else I can say. The best defense is running away if the situation calls for, OR, just give them your stuff if you know they won't beat you up after you have given them. The second part is what usually happens in here.Hope I was able to help-Taison! out

Great... Run... That will help things alot. From the gangsters I know, they run fast and carry pistols. They either catch up to you and beat you down or shoot you. Just play it cool... I've dealt with tons of these gangster thugs yo`, there actually cool people under all the 'clothes' and guns.

Ill give you my address, but you can only steal the fat from my body.

Where I live, you go through them, you're more or less dead. Firstly, they'd strip you off your belonging, beat you up, dump you into the sea and voila, dead.

If you run, well, at least you get a chance. Oh, I forgot to think about one major difference in Asia and USA. In the states, almost every gangster has a gun. In Thailand, the cops probably shoot you down in public as soon as they see you carrying one. So, in short, aren't many guns in Thailand, but in there are tons of illegal arms in the US.

Strange. . . And who are we to blame is my other question..

-Taison! out :grin:

The theft was reported that day, the kid was identified not many days later, and apparently, the subpenas for court already went out to about everyone that was a witness I think (except me). I only assume that the accused person we identified received his in the mail too, because I got an unfriendly phone call from him.I guess I've crossed them. What can one do now?

how old are you dude? maybe you should talk to a lawyer about what to do or talk to your parents and have them talk to your lawyer. If they have made death threats or threats to physically harm you or anything you can probably use that against them in the court.

I'm 17.
The accused goes to a continuation high school just a block or two away from where mine was.

He didn't make any threats at all. This was the first I've heard of him. He just called and mocked me about what's going on. He said something like "Give me back my money/ I want my shit back./ Just FIVE DOLLARS." (That day, before it happened, he first said 'Hey.. Can I hold a five?')

Just having a reply to this makes me feel better.

so you took 5 dollars ffrom him or he took 5 from you?

He was asking, and we didnt give him any money.

hmm thats weird, so he's asking for 5 bucks back that isnt his? pretty brave of him to do such a thing even after whats happened so far. Its probably good to have his number blocked and have this event referenced in court also. You might be able to get a restraining order against him.

I say it's more like $5 and he would've walked away without stealing something worth 100s.

That kid is just a punk. He is most likely all talk and don't let him disrespect you like that. The cops know that this guy is a problem for you so if he does anything to harm you, he will be the top suspect and immediatley apprehended. So unless he has a weapon, just walk away. Or you could just whoop his ass and get it over with which I do not recommend at all. Just don't let dummies like that get the better of you. Yes I know five bucks is not that much money ,but still its wrong. Stand up for yourself and people will respect you more and eventually idiots like this guy will leave you alone. Just don't go around kicking everyone's ass that bothers you. Use your best judgement on the situation and take action. Handle things calmly and rationally. Everything should fall right into place my friend. Good Luck and Good Times Friend