My best friend is a total wreck. He does not have loving parents of that sort, ever since he moved from Fiji they have done absolutely nothing for him. He has a gf, but they are constantly groping, and from my standpoint and a lot of his friends they do not look like or feel like a couple. but beyond that. He has oppurtunities to make things better but he has adopted a I don't give a fuck mentality. I mean i care dearly b/c he is my best friend. I do not know what to do. I need some help. I think he has depression too. I mean he knows and can do more than i can b/c he simply knows more people than me, but he does not.
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I need some help
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Ultimately, you can't force him. All you can do is be there to help him if he wants help, but trying to force-feed someone help is a very risky business.
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Once wrong with lots of groping?
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Hon all you can do is support him. You can't force anyone to do anything.............as for his attitude, i would imagine that will pass, hopefully its a phase hes going through, cos hes so pissed off with everything, and probably still unsettled from the move.
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Not what i wanted to hear. SighsIt is quite sad, i care about him more than his gf, but not in the way she does, eewww. I just do not want him to become a total loser and he is totally on track for that.
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i have brought this up with him, and he does is shut down and ignore me. I mean I am in good grips with me being single.