I think you did the right thing. I mean, maybe nothing would have happened, but that might have encouraged you both to do something you might have regretted later on. It's good that you're thinking about keeping your parents trust and respecting yourself at the same time, seeing as most guys don't really give a damn most of the time. Well, that's what I've noticed about the guys around here. And so what if you passed up a chance? Would it have been better if something bad happened between you two because of that?
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What Should I do?Guys and Girls opinion please.
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ForbidenArsenic,Those were the exact same words pretty much that I was thinking at the time.So I guess in cases like that,the rewards are really not worth the risks at my age.My biggest concern was what if she got pregnant,I know she probably wouldnt have and it wouldnt have been serious,but theres always that big "what if".
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It's good that you think about the "what if" in some situations. In others, it might drag you down...But I think in this particular one, you did the right thing.
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His brother makes my toes tingle just by thinking of his eyes ^^
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aww mom...flattered
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i think that 14 is an ok age for a little bit of sexual activity, but you shouldn't go all the way yet. you are both horney and that's what happens around your age (i'm only 20, so we're not that far off) to keep sex from getting in the way or ruining your relationship, talk with her and set a date that you can both stick to. When i was 18, and a virgin, my girlfriend and i decided to wait one full year from when we started going out to make sure that we cared about each other in a sexual way, obviously you two have been together a lot longer, but sex isn't something to jump into, because it is something that can only happen for the first time once, so make it special, and there's no rule against planning it, you don't have to be spontanious for it to be special. good luck
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I guess its not that big of a deal...but I just dont want us to get hurt in any way.I carwe about my gf so much,I dont know what I would with myself if she got hurt.Im turning fifteen in 3 days,so maybe if I just learn more maybe well do something in several months.There is a lot of stuff i dont know right now,and need to think about.
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I did as you when I was 14. For a 1.5 years we waited for it to be right and she up and moved before it could be. As a result, both our first times(with others) were mared. I not saying jump but you don't need to be a saint. If it is gona go, better with those that care. I don't there's many more out there like you. Just be safe and you'll know. Don't try and things will fall into place.
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Ok, but how about goin all the way at 15 now????
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DOOO THAT SHIT! FUCK IT, THE CHNCES THAT YOU'LL GET COUGHT IF YOUR GOOD AT HIDING, IS SLIMMMMM.
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i dont think it madders what age it is. im 13 and i jsut lost my virginity, and i think that if you feel right about it, than you can do it. dont let peer-presure get to you, do what you want to do...just be safe, and use protection. no madder what. (also i think its a bigger deal to loose virginity if your a girl)