What Should I do?Guys and Girls opinion please.

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Well I masturbate while imagining me and my gf going at it(who doesnt)all the time and have my wild fantsies about her.So tonight we go to the movies and have some fun,see Stealth(which is a very good movie by the way)and talk a little.My parents drop me and her off at the house and then leave to go shopping.This was only the second time they ever left us alone together and they gave me a speech the other night saying how much they were starting to trust me as I got older(I am 14)and all that stuff.Then we sit on the coach and decide to make out...whats wrong with that right?Then eventually this leads to her unzipping my jeans,and thats when I start to hesitate.I asked "What are you doing?"She says"Just having some fun...dont worry,its not like were gonna screw or anything."The talk with my mom and dad came to my mind and the ideas of what might happen did too.I carefully grabbed her and off my boxers and said."no Jenn,we probably shouldnt do anything like this,even if it is just a little expirementing."She just said "alright." and buttoned back up her shirt and said,well lets just watch some TV.So we did the whole time me wanting to shoot myself and how stupid I was.When she left she calld me and asked if it was her fault.I said no.She thinks its her fault now and that just sucks.And here I am smacking myself in the head cuz I passed up a oppurtunity that i dreamed about every night,even if it wasnt banging or anything.What the hell should I do?I jsut needed to get this off my chest.

You did the responsible thing, Your fourteen you have the rest of you life to fool around, and im sure things with your girlfriend will smooth over, so dont worry about that part. You can explain your reasoning, she will understand.

you are a better man than most. You had the sense to stop and think. be proud, that kind of attitude and thinking will pay off with you later.

you can always explain to her that you care about her and that sex isnt something you are in a hurry to get into with her because she means more than that. I dunno say something sweet to get her mind off it so she doesnt think its her fault.

Good one abc....do as abc said. That is what you should do.

You are only 14. Just talk to her, and say that you dont want to rush things. Or something like that

I'm proud of you son! You did the right thing.

We definately were not thinking of having sex.I love my girlfreind,weve technically been going out since the 4th grade and Im entering my freshman year and I dont want anything to happen between us now of all times.So hopefully she lets this blow over because shes kicked my ass a few times over some of the stuff thats happend betweeen us.lol,she can be a bit brutal sometimes over dumb stuff.

Ypu just have to make sure she understands its not HER, you are just not ready for that kind of action yet. Really, maker see its nothing wrong with her, thats n1 in this thing. Also, well done, really

Wow! very proud of you! That's very awesome you had respect for your parents and for yourself. Like Java said you are still young, and you have years of experimenting ahead of you.Just make sure you reassure your GF that it is not her.Serious buddy you did the right thing and you should be very proud of yourself!

yeah, yeah, we're all proud you did the right thing, but, devils advocate here, wha?!? come on now!! you did miss your chance! reading that was like watching one of those plays in football were the qb runs around for 20 seconds behind the line praying not to get sacked looking for a receiver, then, no matter how much i hope he gets the pass off, gets blasted by the fattest guy on the other team, and i am left disapointed. but anyway, i would tell your girlfriend the truth, whatever it is you feel, just let her now. try not to reherse anything, that way it may come out sounding like something hugh grant would say, and chicks love him. if she was willing to go that far with you, she obviously likes you enough to understand where your coming from.

Ya, I was thinking that same thing hotspot.I did the right thing but was it really worht it?I smoothed things over with her now and she understands how we feel and that she made a mistake.It wasnt really HER mistake,im sure she thinks about me alot in that way too.She is just to easily seduced by her freiends that are all sexually active...any way, someday we will do what we almost did.

Thing is, would do you really think you woulda had sex? I don't think her just rubbing your dick is a huge crime.

Unless you consider that thier 14 years old... Exactly what Java said....You've got the rest of your life to 'fool around'.I probably sound like some nagging Mum saying this but, why can't kids just be kids...? (No offence chan, you sound very mature etc) but I think you did the right thing in stopping her in the long run methinks.

I can see why 14 y o are thinking about it, though. But rather small steps are better than just unbuttoning and get going. :P

Hmmm.btw swingcat, if thats you in your avater your very pretty.

Tihi, thank you very much dear sir :wink: Yup its me, alive and kicking!

my sis is hawt! D:

Aw :smile: But you have nicer hair!

he is gorgeous aint he, is his brother as good looking as he is?