first off, i am new here, been reading posts for a few weeks and am impressed with the candor that i have found from people participating....pleased i have found this forum Wanted to know if anyone has had any experience with threesomes...particularly one man and 2 women....better yet with hookers.....curious...
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Threesomes
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no i don't, BUT i've (like many men) have had some sort of desire for a 2 on 1 (me being the 1) but i've never done it. neither do i EVER expect my wife to allow it/be into it. i've sorta been curious on a 1 on 2 (that would be 1 female, 2 male) but again i don't think my wife would go for it. (i mean it took us just 6 months dating for me to even feel her boob, and that with all cloths still on!). however i'm curious to see what other people experiences are. maybe how they got their signifigate other (if applicable) to open up to it/be OK w/ it.
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yesI've told the story a couple of times here so I won't bore everyone with the details.Suffice to say that there were a few elements that separated the reality from the fantacy. One being that both thes lasses significantly outweighed me. BBW!
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my bf said 3 yrs ago before he met me he tried it. he said its every mans dream. now he would like it if i tried it and well i am startin to wonder?
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If you're not completely comfortable with the idea, don't do it.
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You and your partner need to be on exactly the same page when it happens with three people. You need to have an open understand and be able to talk openly about how each of you are feeling and what you expect. If the third person is a friend of both of you, someone could become very jealous or resentful because you spend more time pleasing them or try new things with them rather giving your partner the same amount or more attention. Unless both of you can separate sex from love at the time you do the threesome, you’re asking for trouble if you’re not ready…. Yes it is an awesome fantasy and awesome when it all comes together, but it has ruined many relationships….A lot of communication before and after is the key to doing it without causing damage…I have done it both ways: myself and two women and also one woman, myself, and another guy… It was fanfuckingtastic….. But it ruined my marriage. Just go into it and make sure you know and understanding exactly how everyone feels first!
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how about sex with hookers? i guess being a woman i am wondering if i have been missing out on a threesome experience...lol
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Never had experience with hookers before. That avenue never really interested me.
Have had threesomes with two women and then with one guy and a woman. Like Roc says, it was absolutely hot! It was wild for me since I was mostly in charge in both situations, calling the shots etc. I like to be in the driver seat. Wow! That's a story in itself.
Consider it the flavour of the month. Try it!
:wink:
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how and why did it ruin your marriage?curious.
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well i know he won't go for two guys and one girl he says hes not willing to share.
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takara, I'd love to join in with you and your boyfriend. :grin:
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just wondering how other women might react to finding out that their bf was with 2 hookers (crazy night in vegas, boys friends paid for it, cuz he was blitzed out of his mind...pre our relationship) big part of me is curious, and well thinking what goes on there...what one misses out on...in such an experience.
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just wondering how other women might react to finding out that their bf was with 2 hookers
**I wouldn't have anything else to do with him, simple. **
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Angel, she did say pre-relationship
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LOL it was early, the kids had just gone to school and i was nursing my first coffee of the day......obviously the brain cells weren't firing, thanks for correcting me
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i am not sure about threesomes.i have only been dating him for about 6 months now. but i have known somewhat about him for yrs i even knew his ex-wife .use to babysit one of his children when they came to visit.i know hes had a wild life before he met me. i am just scared that if i was to go for this then well he won't be interested in me any more and think of me like all the others .i don't think i could cope with that. since i seperated from my ex well even with my ex i guess u could say i was not very educated in sex in fact i hated it some what. but with my bf is feels different
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3-somes as a fantasy is HOT, 3-somes in reality i VERY hot, BUT, having done it myself when i was younger but unattatched i would NEVER do it now i am with a partner. I couldn't bare to see him fucking someone else............the people i got to 3-some with, MMF and FFM where close friends yeah, but we weren't in a relationship so neve rhad the emotions that go with loving someone etc.............I wouldn't advise doing this unless it had been spoken about a LOT, and it was agreed that if one person didn't like it, no matter how much the other did, that it stops, without question..............and NEVER feel like its something you should do, cos you think your partner wants it and to please him or her, as it will put pressure on you, and you will resent the other person for 'making you do it'...............i knew a couple where the woman went along with it, cos it turned her husband on so much, she grew to hate it, and he couldn't stop, they arn't together now, theres a surprise eh!
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I agree with you hun.I have always had the fantasy of a threesome and my BF and I talked about it as well. And well more I thought about it and the more attached I get to my BF I could not handle watching another guy fucking, sucking or anything to my BF. Now if someone wanted to watch us have sex, I think I'd be okay with that..actually that would be pretty hot. I just don't think I could handle someone else touching him.
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I would LOVE to watch you and your BF get it on, two guys together so does it for me licks lips
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I would LOVE to watch you and your BF get it on, two guys together so does it for me *licks lips*
Sounds like a plan to me!!! *wink*
See now that turns me on. Having someone watch us have sex would be incredible hot!