Why do Guys Cheat?

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I'm a good girl on here. So maybe it's not as bad as I'm making it out to be. Thank you honeeee!! Kisses to you!

I don't think I would consider chatting with guys really cheating, that depends how far you take itI agree with you. As long as it's all in fun than I see no harm. But onces you become serious, than you are creeping towards the line.

I think every relationship is different. If you're ok with it and you don't have any guilty feelings...then no.

If you were a flirty-thread participant, would you be willing to show the threads to your partner?

Thanks for the tip on the deleting SteveA.

Me personally or in general?

I know wasn't a question to me, but I show Adam the boards all the time and the "perverted" things I have said. He laughs about it because he knows it's all in play, plus he knows my sense of humor.

In general, not you personally. I'm asking the people who participate in those sub-threads, and who have a significant other. Would they be willing to show those threads to their partner? If not, I'd be worried.

**well as a frequent slut of the boards LOL i have to say, yeah he has seen what i have written, and he, like adam n eddie, knows my sense of humour and laughs with me...........I wouldn't do it if he wasn't happy with it, i mean c'mon its a public forum, how hard would it be to check anyway? ** :stuck_out_tongue_winking_eye:

True... it's a public site. I don't think I've posted anything out of the norm on here.

Well, my bf is a very jealous type and he would be pretty pissed if he found out I even posted anything on this site.

Yeah, but most people stay pretty anonymous. You'd usually have to follow someone's posts for a while to get an inkling of who they are, if you know them. That gives a lot of people license to say things they wouldn't if the weren't anonymous.There are people who post things about having cheated on their partner, while the partner still doesn't know what's going on.

I have to agree with that one SteveA.

Well, people do stay hidden, but I never bothered not for a few years anyways.many people on here have the same theory as well and post links to personal sites. my own can be found HEREmany people on this forum have the same set up as I jsut posted. I try to keep my shit atleast half sane, but Im not ashamed or scared. I have met MANY MANY MANY people from online sites but noone from this one to the best of my knowledge.that secret identity shit does lead to many people running thier mouths and saying shit that they never would aside from that condidition. That can be both good and bad.

I've been married eight years and I participate in those flirty threads and I would have no problem showing my wife. Those are just a fun little distraction that have no bearing on reality.

Now, I haven't ever mentioned it to her because, believe it or not, once I step away from this computer I really don't think anything about this board or the people on it...well except for Eddie (caution flirty statement ahead) and thats not because he's one hot sexy bitch :wink:, it's about another matter that, hopefully, I was able to give him some help with. This site is really nothing more to me than a distraction during the slow season at work....and if I'm being honest with myself it probably fills somewhat of a "parental type" need in my life since my wife and I have no kids, nor will we ever, most likely. Sorry, getting a little off topic there. This is a public forum and most of the regulars, if you read all their posts and not just the flirty ones (myself included), generally at some point talk about how much they love their partner and how sexy their partner is and yadda, yadda, yadda. Anyway, so no I don't think it's cheating and put me down under the yes catagory for not caring if my wife reads my posts.

>well except for Eddie (caution flirty statement ahead) and thats not because he's one hot sexy bitch , it's about another matter that, hopefully, I was able to give him some help with

Awww *hugs* you just gave me a smile that I really needed today. And you were awesome help!! You gave me more info than anyone has been able too. You're just awesome =-D