LOL in general they do, they spend most of the time preening with 20 odd creams, mousses n stuff, they do smell good.......I used to date a guy who spent more time in the bathroom preening than i did, it just had to stop LOL not to mention he was so full of himself it made me sick.........
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Just wondering how women feel about fat people
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lol ya it's one thing to try and look good, but going to far is just wrong.
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Its so nice to hear a man say that the skinny body type is unattractive, a lot of guys i have spoken to think the same, having said that i don't get why the media keeps shoving the same body types down our throats. Give me a curvy woman anyday over someone who is too thin, i like nice curves
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perhaps it's the skinny people that are uncomfortable with themselves and try to put it of as the norm.
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we all have bit of ourselves that we don't like, i don't particularly like my big breasts, and used to hate it when people would talk to them instead of me, needless to say, people don't do that anymore, im more 'gently assertive' now LOL but i think no matter how big, small, fat, thin etc you are the key is to be happy with yourself.........its the confidence in yourself, and to think and be who you are, that is for me, the most important thing.
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"no matter how big, small, fat, thin etc you are the key is to be happy with yourself"Exactly, its no fun to be around someone who's always down on their self. I would rather find someone who is ready to laugh and have fun any day, no matter what they look like, than some downer person. Lifes to short for me to waist my time on that shit.
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but this leaves me with the question. how important are looks for first impressions or to get the attention to start a good convo. i mean you do have to be somewhat attractive(not like way hot but decent) don't you? or am i completely wrong in this:S so confusing now.
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Personally i don't care what people look like, i have been approached by hot guys, who as soon as they speak bore me and i have told em to go away.........the first thing that attracts me to someone is if they are smiling or laughing..........those that sit, posing don't get a second look..............maybe im just wierd!!!
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Well when I used to date girls (LoL) I never liked the really skinny girls, just nothing attractive about that. I liked a girlw ith some substance lol.But as for guys now I like some substance as well. Though admittingly Adam is probably the thinnest guy I ever dated, but he's not all bone either, he's pretty toned. But in generally I like a guy with some substance.
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If your talking about seeing someone across a crowded bar, than yes, its all a matter of looks. If your talking about talking to someone then looks get far less important. Things like, is this a fun pleasent person, does she smell good, is she dressed good, body language, ect., start coming into play. Of course attractiveness is a big part of it and it helps but that is so subjective, I don't, really, know how it can be generalized.
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oh ok that's what i thought:P it all makes more sense now.
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> Fred Durst (vocally he sucks) is a total hottie!
He may be pleasantly plump, but he is such a jerk. Are women really attracted to jerks? :wink:
Is anyone attracted to Mickey Rourke's character in 9 1/2 Weeks?
Angel> Its so nice to hear a man say that the skinny body type is unattractive
Not everyone who is very thin is anorexic. My mother was very thin, and she ate fine. My father comes from a family of big eaters, and his parents thought my mother was unattractively thin. They kept trying to feed her massive quantites of high-calorie foods. But she was just naturally thin.
Even if not every man thinks that non-thin women are unattractive (how PC was that?), it's still not a virtue that some men think that thin women are unattractive. I had a long, circuitous relationship with a woman who was very thin when I met her, but over the years kept putting on weight. That was fine with me. There were issues with the relationship, but weight wasn't one of them.
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well i wasn't saying that heathily thin is unatractive either, because it is very attractive but it's only part of it...i like all and most women depending on what they're like. but there still is a point to where you get too thin.(i think)
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> there still is a point to where you get too thin
If you're too thin or too fat, then you have a medical condition.
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<<<<>>>>>Angel> Its so nice to hear a man say that the skinny body type is unattractiveNot everyone who is very thin is anorexic. Hang on a minute where in my post did i say anything about anorexia????
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I wasn't implying that you did, but last night I happened to be talking to a woman who looked fine (she was on the thin side), but who was given a lot of grief in high school, when she was even thinner. She wasn't anorexic (she said), but she had difficulty putting on weight. But the other kids kept taunting her about being anorexic. I think it left some scars.I still don't see any virtue in some men's not being attracted to thin women.
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I still don't see any virtue in some men's not being attracted to thin women. I think it just comes down to person attraction/preference. I can see thin girls/guys and find them pretty/cute but nothing more. When it comes to someone I want to be with in a relationship I'd rather have someone with alittle substance, like with girls (When i used to date them) I liked alittle curvature and guys I like that tone yet full look (Dunno how else to describe it).
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Well good for you, but don't you think it would be more ideal if everyone found everyone else attractive? I'm not attracted to every woman, but I really wish I were. It would certainly widen the field of possibilities. There's no rational reason that someone who I'm not attracted to, but not planning to have chidren with, shouldn't be able to render as much sexual satisfaction as someone I am attracted to.This is how we have evolved. It's unfortunate. I don't think dogs and cats have such issues.
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Jezues, i made this post yesterday expecting about 3 replies and i get 40, some went a little off topic but the help was good so thanks guys
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Well good for youNot sure why the rude gesture. I was being polite.>but don't you think it would be more ideal if everyone found everyone else attractive?In a perfect society sure. But everyone has different taste or different factors that turn them on when it comes to visual traits. Like example, I like dark hair and dark eyes. I have nothing against blonde and blue eyes people (hell Adam's blonde and blue eyed lol), I just fine dark hair and dark eyed people more attractive.