Just wondering how women feel about fat people
Hmm. It looks like you've completely missed the point. Very well, then.
I know how you you you you you you you feel, but I'm asking, Wouldn't the world be a better place if everyone found everyone else sexually attractive?
I know that different people have different tastes. I know that you find certain characteristics attractive, but I'm asking, Wouldn't the world be a better place if everyone found everyone else sexually attractive?
I mean, wouldn't it?
Sure in a perfect society yes. But not possible.And this is out of your normal box Steve of asking question that aren't possible. Not saying I disliek it,just not used to it.And now thinking. If we found everyone attractive would there be more risk is cheating? if nothing else there would be more temptation to do so.
Sure in a perfect society yes. But not possible.Never? Why? I'm sure that's how people once felt about other negative aspects of human civiliazation.> And this is out of your normal box Steve of asking question that aren't possible.Thanks for the insult. The question is not only possible; it exists.> And now thinking. If we found everyone attractive would there be more risk is cheating? if nothing else there would be more temptation to do so.Even if you only find 5% of guys attractive, that's still a lot of people. I don't see why everyone being attractive would change anything.
ya it would be nice if it were possible, but if it ever became a reality don't you think the risk of rap and assult would also be higher....and like ntro said would you also be able to trust your lover?...i dunno just some thoughts
Thanks for the insult. The question is not only possible; it existsActually it was a compliment. And yeah it exists but only in the animal kingdom (Exclude humans for this discusion). Most animals,, like cats and dogs, go off the scent of the female being in heat. Now there are some animals that are similar to humans like dolphins. They mate for life and they actually choose their mate. I also believe penguins are also the same way.
So you're saying that women tend to get raped when they're too attractive? So, in order not to be raped, then, women might want to look as dowdy as possible.Even if your standards are pretty exacting, you must encounter attractive people all the time, when you leave your house. Do you rape and cheat because of that, or is it the other people that worry you?__________________________________"Emperors are the most unfaithful of all penguins: 78 percent of mating pairs go their separate ways after only one year !"
and wolf's lol
I believe there are some birds that mate for life, but I can't remember which.
Actually, fat is the new in. And very attractive. I wouldn't say fat.. more like chubby... or big boned. Since slim is unattractive... there goes my shot lol.
well i think i missed that memo.
thats what i was thinking godzilla lol
So you're saying that women tend to get raped when they're too attractive? So, in order not to be raped, then, women might want to look as dowdy as possible.no i'm just saying that there are sickose out there that will have more oppurtinities to take addvantage of....and i've also been doing some thinking...:S i think the reason most women don't care if men are fat, or chubby is because of their natural abilities to love unconditionally, and for men they don't have that(or as much as women) sadly. but i will say that the love women give is highly arousing....:D >Since slim is unattractive... there goes my shot lol. i really hope you're kidding:P cuz everybody is very attractive to somebody. and there is absolutely nothing wrong with being slim:P i love slim....more then big boned. but i also don't mind big boned if the girl is fun to be around.
I have a female friend that is overweight. She is having a difficult time with her self image. She is convinced that men are not attracted to her because she's "fat". She is 5'1" and weighs about 180. She is a little on the big side, but she is beautiful. I have tried to tell her this over and over again. Men don't find her attractive because of her low self-esteem, not because she's heavy. I tried to point this out to her numerous times to no avail.I have another female friend who is 5'5" and weighs 230. This girl isn't as pretty, but her personality is to die for. I asked my male friends if they would ever sleep with the 180 pound girl, they say no. I ask the same of the 230 pound girl, they say absolutely. When I asked them why, they said my bigger friend has a great personality and carries herself with confidence. I know they were being honest because the smaller girl is my best friend.It's really hard to convince her that all she needs is some confidence in herself, and to start carrying herself proudly. I've been heavy and I've been slim, but I've always been confident in myself, and never have I had a problem dating men.
are you sure that happend? who did you ask?
Yes, I am sure that happened. I asked my close male friends about this a couple of weeks ago because my good friend was having a major self-esteem problem because of her weight. I wanted to find out exactly what men look for in women when they're over weight or a little heavy. They all told me that weight isn't the problem. It's how a girl carries themselves. Now, they may be a unique group of men, but they were being very honest.
