ok, um.. well bascialy im confused about my relationship with my gf... um, and i posted this part before but people might not have seen it and such, but this is my second relationship, and its waay more phyisical than my first... way more.. geez... ok the problem-esk thing is that, well, i fingered my girlfriend today.. and this is like.. a huge thing.. never done anything like that before, its so weird even saying that... it was good at the time.. but now im a little scared... i dont know why though... i mean... last week was the first time i ever tuched a breast.. and today was the first time i ever saw a girl with her shirt off.. er. heh.. in real life... and also the first time i fingered a girl.. GAH.. it dosnt seem real... i dont know.. it feels like i have two difforent relationships.. one when im with her, and one when im thinking about her and she isnt here... its like im difforent people.. i feel almost like an outside observer right now... um.. sorry for the long windedness.. but are these normal feelings? will they pass? any one else feel this way? im confused and such...
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Getting too physical?
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I'm 17
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i know the feelingits so over whelmingbut it is a pretty big thing. like as if you're going to forget the first time you've seen a real pair of titties (and in a non perveted way lol)!but you get over itif you don't like how fast things are going, then let her knowbut this may come off as reallly lame to her,... 'unmanly' as Unforgetto would put. i'd agree with him! but i wouldnt want to go too far either in a relationship, not too sure how i'm going to set the boundariesgood luck mate
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Just be a man, don't be so sensitive about groping girls...oookkkk this is retarded. of course you need to be sensetive, they're the girl's breast they're not yours to touch freely. even if you get to touch them you still need to be sensetive about it. it keeps you alert to what she likes and doesn't.and in answer to the original post. i felt the exact same way you did and do. i have never gotten over the feeling(mainly because when the opportunity comes i can't help myself, shameful i know) and it does feel like it's all going slow motion. but as long as you're not doing anything wrong then just relax go with the flow of how things are moving. and if you don't feel comfortable about how it's going and you feel it's gettng too physical then talk to her about it. i'm sry i don't know how to explain myself any better because i know what you're going through(for the most part) and it's not fun after you get done is it? but time will make that pass. also if you're christian that may have something to do with the guilt and stuff. (actually that would explain a lot) but hope this helps and, good luck
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well sry for the misunderstanding then....but he still needs to be sensitive. but i do have question for you unforgetto....do you think that men should have all the major roles in life? because this is the the second or third time of you referring to men as doing everything and toughening up....not all men need to be desensitized to the world...and especially not to women.
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\> also if you're christian that may have something to do with the guilt and stuff.
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There are other religions?
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oh goodness I pray not all males are like this! please Lord! please!
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id say 30% based on my experiance
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oh God why? that's 70% left right? hope the numbers stay that way.
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boys are lil perves till hey hit mid 20's me thinks
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mid 20's?!?! well that answers my future problems.
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Hey! I'm not a perv!! Can I see your boobies?
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booies? oh that's righteous
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everyone but bob. bob rules. go bob!
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Yeah, I noticed that after I posted so I changed it. :grin: How about your boobies? You're only 4 years under-age, right?
YES!! I RULE!!!!
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bob your suposed to take a lady out before you ask to see her boobies
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Well, I would ask you out, but I don't have a car. And it would be so embarrassing to turn up in a plane.
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that depends if its your plain or some one elses, now if it was your plane that would be quite an entrace. or a helicopter. helicopters are cool
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Well, a friend of my sister has a helicopter, not sure if it could make an entire trans-atlantic flight. But I'll try!