you know instead of asking him, you could just guide his hands up to your breasts, thats what i do, in the heat of the moment when he hasnt visited that part of my body lol, i love having my boobs touched/nipples sucked- if you feel slightly awkward with the whole thing, just show him, guide him and he'll follow, and next time things wont be so awkward and you can follow on from that..
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Help guys!!do guys like to play with breasts?
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me=guy+virginso i don't think if my gf and had sex i would spontaniously lick her breasts, she would have to give me a sign or tell me to or something
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so dont ask then.As you two get more used to it with each other youll start picking up on things and hopefully you wont have that problem but something as simple as boob sucking, just push his head down to em and keep your hands in his hair and push it in his mouth, He will get the idead.Mostly when I liek to suc em is getting shit started after that i like to play with em when Im doing her from behind on her hands and knees
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forcing him to suck on them is worse than anything else neways, thank you all of you who replied and more are welcomed
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No one said anything about forcing. The idea is to give guidance. Pushing his head to the right place is a good way to do it.
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me = virgin...
maby yall shouldent go from... making out to fucking all in one day... give him a BJ let him finger u/eat u out... take it slow... but first let him play with ur chest... thats the first move... just pull off ur top one day when ur sitting there making out... he will imediately take the hint... and start playing with them... if u feel thats a good time take it further... maby let him play downstairs or if he takes care of ur boobies right... and i mean REALY good... give him a hand job or head... i love a woman in control... telling me what to do... but yeh slow down... take off ur shirt and bra one day when yall are making out... it will tell u everything u need to know :smile:
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To directly answer your question. Since he already plays with your breasts he is going to play with them in the future. You will just move on to other things as well. Guiding his hand and/or head, moaning to let him know you like what he is doing, doing to him what you want him to do to you, talking to him, are all ways to let him know that is what you want. You will be surprised about how much a few yes's at the right time will tell him what you want. So, I would bet he will continue playing with your breast as you move to actual intercourse. Foreplay is foreplay whether you call it getting to 1st base, 2nd base, or making out (what ever name you call it) It is all setting the body up for sex. It all is trying to get to the same place.
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Yes, me and my girlfriend are both virgins too, and we are both somewhat shy about being intimate, but whenever we makeout, all that seems to go away, I usally go strait to fingering her or feeling her boobs and she seems to like it and she dosn't seem shy at all. I'm not sure if this helps, but remember, there are other couples out there like you.
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If he plays with your boobs when you are making out, this means he is interested in that part of your body. Thus he has most likely thought of putting them in his mouth. He is a guy, and they very much like that part of a girls body. Maybe you should take off your shirt and bra when you are making out so he can see them and then maybe his mouth will soon wonder down there. That would be awesome for you.There is no way you could force a guy to suck on boobs, they all love it. So don't sweat it.
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hm...i think he'ld be interested in "everything" lol but boobies are very fun to play with.....mmmmm can't get enough of them. so i agree with hotpants on this.
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Asking if guys like to play with breasts is like asking if a circle is round. Hell yeah they do! I am pretty sure he will know to ply with your breasts during sex, if he touches them while making out he will during sex probably. But yeah communication is the key even if it is a little awkward you will benefit you both.
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I like it when my gf does that. I think it's kind of sexy knowing the girl wants you to touch her goodies. When you do that, while you two are making out or something, whisper in his ear to massage them but be gentle. haha it would be weird if you two were just chillin watching tv and then you put his hand on your boob.
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yea its a big turn on when the girl is having fun...and wants u to do stuff.but on the other side...its a HUUUUUUGE turn off if the girl im doin stuff wit seems liek shes not having fun/doesnt want toseriously like a girl was giving me a hand job one time and she just seemed like she was bored lookin around n stuff and i started go to limp and i was liek just nvm.I love girls that show that they want the guy
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if she gets bored you need to show her a bit of fun, and give her some pleasure, its a 2 way thing, you cant expect her to do all the work (im not suggesting that you are, but in general)
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well, i dont know ANY1 who doesnt love to play with breasts, esspecially during love making. I wouldve thought that it would be a natural thing for guys - it very much was for me. Talking about sex proir is always a good thing - maybe you could just convey to him about what you want him to do. being able to talk about it makes sex just that much more intimate i believe
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Anytime me and my fiance are going at it, I'll always try to do something with her tits. She likes licking, sucking, and minor squeezing and it definitely helps us both get more into the mood. Rarely does she not want anything done with them.