oh k im bi and i have a boyfriend he is my first and 2 days ago we had sex for the first time and oh k i noe this isnt a porn site but i have 2 tell you so u can understand....he has a really big dick i mean its really wide and long as in like 9 1/2'' long im not sayin thats bad but its just kinda of big and when he stuk it in my azz it hurt like a bitch and i couldnt take it so i had 2 stop can anyone help me on this so i can please my boyfriend??????
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Anal sex help.....
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I don't have any experience with this, but I imagine the width is the problem. Were you using lots of lube? I assume you would need to, and you'd need to be relaxed. Any pain or worry of pain would make you tense up too much.Oh, late addition: you should be practicising safe sex, so that means a condom every time.
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Make sure you are very relaxed before receiving. Use plenty of lube. He can apply some directly to his penis, and some more around your anus. Take things slow at first until you are relaxed enough to adjust comfortably to the width, and don't be afraid to apply some extra lube from time to time if need be.
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Coming from experience: first you have to be 100% relaxed, and i mean REALLY relaxed, so relaxed you're on the verge of drooling lol (dont drool though hehe). Second use tons of lube, both on the hole and on his dick. Third, start with a finger, then once you're used to that, go on to two fingers, then perhaps three (YOU MUST BE RELAXED THE WHOLE TIME). After you've gotten used to the figers, go ahead and SLOWLY put in the penis - very slow and very controlled, and make sure you dont tense up. Once he gets going a bit you'll be able to completely relax. If done properly, anal shouldn't hurt.Good luck. Oh and use a condom every time (fingers and penis).
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I agree with jen. Relaxation is a BIG key in Anal sex. You deff cannot just stick it in lol. Only thing I would add (and depending on your age) is to get a dildo called "Silver Bullet". Before I have anal sex with my BF I let him lube me up good, start with a few fingers and than I let him use the Silver Bullet it on me until I give the word that i'm ready. And even than I like to ride it first because it gives me control on how fast and how much I take.
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9 1/2" ?!?!?! ouch.
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SUPERMAN3's profile says he's a guy. So, vaginal sex is out of the question :laughing:
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Hmm...I don't think it's possible to actualy stretch one's anus, with out physical damage of course.
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lol! eewww... yeah. you dont wanna be doing that! nice little illustration there :wink:
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Your words make my bum feel sore...lmao.