Pre-Cum and Wet dreams

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Well first of my first post, Hello =)2nd of i wasw always to shy to ask someone this in person so i thought maybe ill try here. If i have pre cum on me and i know its there it drives me banana's i hate it so much and causes me non stop worrying i just want to jump in the shower which btw are 2 hours+ cause i always worried i missed some, also because of my worrys i do not masturbate so there for as a result have frequent wetdreams which i hate it to teh point want to take a knife and chop it of, but what im wondering for a person who is premature ejaculator and has constant erections is there a way i can stop pre cum from happening or is it a losing battle and be something i have to learn to live with?Thanks

I'm not quite sure what you were talking about (sentences would help), but it sounds like you don't like pre-cum. Most guys put out pre-cum at some point before they ejaculate (or even if they don't ejaculate). It serves a biological purpose.What exactly is the issue, in your case?

You take 2+ hour showers becasue you are worried that you have pre-cum left on you? Sounds like a bit of an obsession. Yes, it's a losing battle so get over it. It's normal.And why don't you masturbate? Are you disgusted with the semen?

You must be young (I can imagine you're about 12-14 years old), so it's veery natural everything's happening to you. You should first not even think to chop your penis. It will be soo useful when you get older :P.Anyway, don't be shy about masturbation/ejaculation. Almost everyone masturbates in your age and they do it very frequently. And being horny all the time happens to many of your schoolmates. So, not a big deal, really. Don't be shy and discuss about it with some friends of yours (if you're really close to them). I'm sure they masturbate also :PAnyway, if you have wet dreams/ pre-cum, it may means that you don't masturbate enough. Your body produce sperm all the time and it is trying to find a way to ejaculate it (wet dreams/ pre-cum).So, next time you get horny just masturbate. Since you can do it, you must be proud of yourself :P

I agree with sdp. 2+ hours in the shower is an indication of obsessive-compulsive disorder (OCD), which is an anxiety disorder. This seems to be the root of your problems. OCD can be effectively treated with SSRI (selective serotonin re-uptake inhibitor) antidepressants, and these also have a libido-reducing effect that will probably help with the premature ejaculation and constant erections also.

I had a feeling it was OCD and have accepted this fact, and from what everyone seems to say this is a normal thing for boys and men to develop pre cum when arroused, I guess ill have to learn to live with it, Im not even sure why i worry about it in the first place just that if i know it is there it drives me crazy and all i can think about is i want it gone, cant seem to enjoy myself doing anything from playing games , to going to a movie, to going out or even go to work, have 1 thing on my mind and that is to jump in the shower and this is really starting to bug me now i just want to be over it =(

i just want to be over itIt's probably not going to fix itself spontaneously. As ineligible said, antidepressants can often successfully treat OCDs. You need to see your doctor about it (your own doctor would be good start; but psychiatrists specialize in this sort of thing).

Just curious how old you are. Pre-cum is a natural thing that happens to get the penis lubricated for sex. I'm also curious why you don't jack-off? It feels really good and does help take care of some of the erections if done regularly.

I am 19 years old, and yes i know its a normal thing for there to be precum and for it to come out durung errectiosn but hell i hate it, i dont know why my mind just wont allow me to accept it there, kinda drives me crazy cause if i know its there then its either jump in the shower or try and take it, which is why i dont masterbate, for if i did then that would bring alot more forcing me into the shwoer right after its bad enough as it is when a errection comes to try and fight it back i dont want to live my life in the shower i did see a doctor before about it but he seemed clueless and the meds he did prescrive didnt do anything, even spent a week in hpsptal while they did tests and monitored me, can anyone here recomend maybe a medicine the know works really well?Thanks =)

What kind of doc. did you see? You need to find a psychiatrist that knows about OCD and knows how to treat it.

There are no medicines to fix the pre-cum problem. There might be some to fix your head though. You don't like pre-cum..... I'll bet you hate semen too. It probably disgusts you. I'm surprised you can urinate and defecate without having an anxiety attack. You need to see a psychiatrist. I'm not trying to be mean, but you have a some problems that we can't help you with.

i did see a doctor before about it but he seemed clueless and the meds he did prescrive didnt do anythingWhat meds? For what purpose?> even spent a week in hpsptal while they did tests and monitored meA week? For what? What were they looking for? I'm sure they didn't keep you in the hospital for a week to tell you that you have pre-cum.As OldFolks and sdp said, you will live in misery with your OCD if you don't do anything, but you'll be able to get help from a psychiatrist. You need to go!