Just blowing off... steam

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Haha Yes, I think ill have to find out.

Or, you can forgot about waiting until tonight

Well, if I were to (hypothetically, people) do that I'd only want to do it with someone I actually craved. I do get hit on occasionally... but only from greasy, gross guys I wouldn't touch on my most desperate days (and there have been some). Besides my gorgeous fiance, the guys I'd actually be interested in never give me a second look. It does keep me good. Actually, I always thought that if I were a man I'd be a big whore. LOL

Some day I plan on growing up and being a big whore laff

Im a greasy gross guy! want I should hit on ya?Maybe that will starighten you out ad put ya back on the right track.man Im happy as a pig in shit my girl likes greasy gross guys!

lol I'm sure you're not so gross.

ROFL

well my girl informs me I am very gross.I think its jsut because Im a man and have realized that farts are hystericaly funny. and any dick joke or shit joke, thats funny as well.

Aside from all this sex stuff, why, why, why do you and your fiance have to be separated? Are you guys getting PhD's at separate universities? Is one of you in prison?

Matter of fact, why are you looking to hurt him in the first place? Just come clean about the whole thing and break up. It's easier said than done. You don't need to be coming onto a public message board, looking for a "blessing" to do something that could seriously hurt someone you love. For once, think about the man's feelings and not your own selfish wants/desires.

I have met many women who cheat on their husbands often. In fact, I fucked a married woman and I highly regret it. She just continues to sleep around with guys behind his back and won't fucking learn from it. Don't make the same mistake I did, even though you're not married. If you can't be faithful to him, DON'T MARRY HIM!

I really do not think that can tell her not to marry someone, she's a grown woman and can do what she wants. She hasn't cheated on him, she is just having sexual frustrations as most people do.

Yeah, most people feel that itch at some point in their relationships.

Thanks so much, java, for understanding what I meant! Half of the people on here thought I was getting ready to cheat on my man! If you knew me in person you would laugh at the thought. I love my fiance very, very deeply, and I'd be quite the fool to let him go for an orgasm.I have to admit that I do feel like quite the little idiot now, though. Our relationship is excellent, except for the darn distance thing. (SteveA, actually, we are. Not the prison thing ). Its more sexual frustration than boredom or even a real desire to cheat. When we get together the sex is just fine... it's just the fact that it can only occur once in a blue moon. Speaking of blue, I'm about as close as I can get to that without being a guy...The other guy isn't a real option or anything... I don't think he's attrated to me at all, it's just a little fantasy I cooked up because seriously this guy is the sort of person that does the kinds of things I'd be too afraid to do. He's a fantasy more than a real person... which is why I prefer to hang out with him as much as I can so that I can remember that (it sounds disingenuous but it's true - being near him reminds me of why he'd be wrong for me anyway). But I don't see him very often and my mind very often plays tricks on me. It could be all the sex I'm not having. I'm grateful for what I have and I won't let it go. It just gets hard sometimes. And I'm not there to enjoy it.

Is the reason that you and your fiance so far apart for so long the giant mystery that it seems?

I woould be the same