This is just a thought... I usually don't reply to posts like these, but I gotta tell you, I feel bad for you, that must be very frustrating and humiliating.I was shown a trick with condoms by a girl I dated. if you take a new unlubed condom out of teh wrapper, unroll it, and then cut the rubber ring off the opening, you can use it for a makeshift cockring. just get a stiffy worked up, and double up the ring, like make it go around twice, put it on all the way at the bottom, then put your good new lubed seocnd condom over your john-thomas and go to town. if you are getting limp while putting on the condom, think of arousing things, and get a good stiffy up again. use the clothes rack muscles. You know what I mean? Ever get a hard-on, then use it for a towel rack, and if you flex a certain muscle you can bounce the towel up and down? Gee, that's hard to explain, but I'm sure you know what I'm talking about. Ever see the guy who ties cinderblocks to his one-eyed spitter, and can lift them? eh, ok, maybe I am the only one who watches those tv shows... anyhow...if you flex that muscle with a cockring on, you'll pump ole willy full of blood and he will be a rock. At that point, your girlfriend better hold on to the bed with all her might, if she's that tight, because that is gonna hurt her like hell. That's the worst thing about virgins and big guys. You know they want to take a ride on the bologna pony, they look eager to take it all in, but as soon as you get the head in, and you commit yourself to slippingher the rest of the salami, you see that look on her face, and the tears well up. You feel really bad about it, and you apologize like crazy, but you just can't help but see the pain in her eyes. Then you get that crazy talk out of her, where she can't decide what to do because it hurts, but it feels good, So she says, don't stop, but the look on her face says, "take it out!" Of course, once you convince her that there should be a 2nd time, and a 3rd time, you don't see that look anymore, instead you see nothing but the "Oh face" on her. The "oh" face is great. Well, good luck.