There is a girl that I've been talking to for about 3-4 weeks. We hang out about everyday by playing racquetball. I took her out to eat one day after our racquetball game and we kind of "chilled" afterwards. She said she really enjoyed herself and that she really do enjoy playing racquetball with me. Well...a couple of days went by and I could realize that I was falling for her. I let her know that I was falling for her and she told me that she was not looking to be in a relationship right now. Well...I played racquetball with her again today and she told me that she would like to take me out to eat, which was a surprise to me. She said she just got paid and that she would like to take me out for she felt she owed me from the time I took her out. How can I interpret that? Is there anyting to interpret from it? Is a only a simple nice gesture that she is making toward me and I shouldn't look into it as if she is trying to...get closer to me? I'm a little confused right now Please help.
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Interpretation...
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Personally I'd just see it as a friendly gesture.Females work in mysterious ways.If you play it cool and treat it as just a gesture, then at least you wont be hurt if nothing comes of it.If, however, she does decide to take it further (and seriously leave it to be her decision) then you will still have that opportunity open.She's probably just being a friend though.
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Yeah, that's a little confusing. It's possible that she's had a change of heart, but this might also just be friendly gesture. Either way, I would just "go with the flow." As she nixed the relationship idea earlier, the ball is in her court (lol-dumb pun). Good luck, but I'd keep searching around while your waiting for an answer.
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Thanks a lot guys. You all are the best. I believe I will play it safe and "go with the flow" to see if anything happens. Thanks again.
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Best way to do it mate.