Never had an orgasm.

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yeah, The guy that did it is in jail now.. and he was one of my familys close friends..

I can't even masurbate yet. All strength to you.

Magnetic Whore, if you keep going as you have been, getting pregnant, and getting STDs, is only a matter of time. If you have sex, a condom is essential every time.But it's an unfortunate fact that girls who have sex with a lot of people tend to get disrespected. It's a double standard, because boys don't get treated the same way, but it happens.

PLEASE be careful.. Condoms are a Must when you are having sex. You said you are not ready to have a child or an STD. You should be smart enough to use a condom to try to prevent both of those

Hrm, I don't see what is wrong with having sex at such a young age... I started soon after I turned 12 and found out I could ejaculate, and why I did. I slept with at least 20 different girls from 12-14, but used a rubber each time. As for getting a girl to cum, I've only been able to do it to about half of the girls I've slept with, and the majority of them were from ages 14-16. It is actually a LOT harder than I thought it would be, but I dunno, people say I'm a lover. I have never gotten a girl to cum without first giving oral, or massaging her gently, I don't think just pounding and having a hell of a time works too well... If you want, ask your boyfriend/partner to try being more sensitive? I don't know, you should probably listen more to the older people here, they've had much more experience than me.

and your proud of this? what the fuck?

I'm not proud of anything, I'm just open about pretty much everything... I just asked why people think it's wrong to be sexually active at a young age, I never understood it. I always thought that hey, if people hundreds of years ago would marry and have kids around my age, then isn't that when we're meant to start showing sexual affections for others? I'm not really sure, but I am just speaking my mind.

Oh no, I didnt mean to sound condescending or anything, it just amazes me all these 13 year olds having sex. Im in my early 20's and i cant fathom it. Kids having sex that young and havign so many partners are opening themselves up for having kids and STD's (Chlamydia and Ghonnoreah especially) Condoms generally only work 73% of the time, Partially because of improper use. so, out of 100 people 27 of those will be at risk of STD's and Babys. Woman that have children at 13 are at a high risk of dying or having the baby die for being underly developed, and people were thinking about marriage and kids at 14 in the 1800's and before that is because people didn't live very long.

and people were thinking about marriage and kids at 14 in the 1800's and before that is because people didn't live very long. I guess that makes sense. I'm sorry for being so ignorant, I just listen to my teachers in school, and I draw conclusions from that, and try to back it up. I don't think I can, since you are most probably correct on your last statement.As for the thing about 13 year olds having sex, I have no idea why. My first time I got all lovey dovey and thought I was in love, just to get my heart broken a month later. It's been the same several times, so I tend to try and stay away from letting a girlfriend have me in complete control/a trance.Now, I don't have a clue why, but I am a very sexual/sensitive guy, and I just love to be close to other people, and give hugs, kisses, etc.The only other reason I have as to why adolescents near my age are so eager to have sex, is that we just want to hurry and get older. Making love to someone can make certain individuals feel confident/grown up/independent. Some guys at school say that having sex "makes you a man," but I think that is utter nonsense, that's just me though.

Oh if i sounded like i jumped on you i didnt, it just kills me on how bad the public school systems do at explaining the consequences of sex and getting pregnant, and stds. Its absolutely horrible. Being all lovey dovey is a good thing, but when you get lovey dovey and have sex is when things happen when your not prepared. (In no way am i saying dont have sex) Im just sayign Be prepared. make absolutely positive you know about their sexual past (and people do lie so keep that in mind) and use two forms of birth control. Its funny, men have to have sex to be considered men, but a girl is a slut if she does Its ironic.

Oh, alright, no problem, if anything, I snapped at you first :PI think you are perfectly right about the school system... My school only tells us to use protection, and tells us where to buy them. Not much help.As for the STD thing, I'm very conscious(sp?) about my body, and I check with a doctor about any STDs I may have, or think I have, before sleeping with anyone else, or even getting slightly intimate with others.

Really? Wow, that's pretty interesting. Makes me kind of queasy reading that but it's not unusual. My friend Stacy is pregnant though and she' not 17 yet. That's sad.

Stacy is pregnant???????? In South America? I thought she was...religious.

lol no not the stacey you know there's another girl in my school named stacy who is pregnant.

no, condoms work 99% of the time the 1% is if the person was stupid and didn't know how to use it.
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Where do you get your information? Are you making this stuff up?According to the Mayo Clinic::In reply to:How effective is it at preventing pregnancy?The breakage rate for condoms is two out of 100. Of every 100 couples who use condoms incorrectly and inconsistently, 14 will experience a pregnancy during the first year of use. Of every 100 couples who use condoms correctly and consistently, only three will experience a pregnancy.

Well, REGARDLESS of your age (I couldn't stand reading through all the replies, it seemed to get pretty lame), that shouldn't have much to do with whether or not you can orgasm. It's been proven that INFANTS can masturbate even (they don't know that's what it is, of course) so....I shouldn't think age would affect it. (I know that personally, one method I had when I was about 4 years old of trying to hold off from going to the bathroom when someone was in there is also used as a masturbation technique, even though obviously I hadn't a clue at the time about that!) You said you're 13, right? Okay. That's around the age I started actually masturbating (and knowing what it was) so it's not like it's impossible for someone your age to orgasm. (I can speak from experience on that.) HOWEVER....at your age, and the age the guys are you're sleeping with, even if you've all had more than one partner, you really aren't that experienced. I don't mean that as an insult in the slightest way, I mean that truthfully. You may THINK you know what you're doing, but in a few years, you'll be like, wow, I thought that's how you were supposed to do that? Anyway, don't fret about it for now. I know plenty of guys in their 20's and upwards that don't know how to give women orgasms! I would say that by the time you're 16 (or whenever you decide to start seeing a gynecologist, everyone has different ages for that), if you still are totally unable to, ask your doctor about it. They'll be able to tell you if there's anything physically preventing you from having one or not. I'm almost willing to bet though that you'll be fine Don't worry about it, because anxiety is one of THE biggest orgasm killers known to man (and woman )!Hope this helps!