Looks or personality?

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I've heard just about everygirl say that they looks for guys with good personality rather than looks, so i was wondering why do guys go through all the trouble with fixing their hair and other stuff, and i don't see any ugly guys with good personalities with hot girls only hot guys with hot girls so what i'm saying is i dont think this is true and wut r ur opinions?

Most people go for looks, then they get to know them. Some people just don't look past the looks, though, which is probably why you see a lot of good looking people going out only with good looking people.

I don't think that is necessarily true. I believe that people date people that they feel are equal to them. People who are "hot" and have been treated as such are likely to have similar attitudes, and therefore may match due to the way they have been treated, and the personalities they have developed. The way in which people develop their personalities in school and their socialisation has everything to do with a potential partner - they look at how each other react in situations, how they carry themselves, and the sort of things they enjoy. They go with people who are like themselves!

Its a combination of both. Looks attract you to the person to start off with, then personality takes you the rest of the way

I have to agree with you. Most people I know arent really going to go up and randomly talk to someone they dont know who isnt very attractive. I'm not one to do that either... Usually if i find someone attractive I'm more likely to approch them

I disagree... There is no proof that the ugly guys are the ones with good personalities. A lot of the uglier guys have some kind of personality defect- annoying, stupid, rude... Also, it follows that hot guys have more confidence, which we women find attractive. Finally, I have seen the guys that are really funny and smart, although not ugly or hot, just sort of 'eh' looking, score some really beautiful girls... And I'm jealous of those girls! When people first meet someone, they are also (subconsciously, maybe) looking for outward signs of their personality... Like someone walking with their head up indicates confidence, walking slow indicates patience or easy-going-ness, etc.

You didn't read what i said. I cant tell someones personality by looking at them. I cant tell if an ugly person is funny or rude.. or if a gorgeous person is funny or rude... I've dated all types of guys.. good looking, gorgeous, ugly, average looking etc... The guy im after right now.. totally amazes me.. he isnt that great looking..hes average.. not my type at all we're sooo different.. but he has this personality.. that takes my breath away.. to me.. he is the most gorgeous person I have met! And he terrifies me.. hard to explain

I don't think I meant to reply to you, although I did edit my post so it showed SOME relevance to yours... Hey! I'm sick, cut me some slack... The cough syrup's getting to me, lol.

is it possible to get drunk off of cough syrup?

actually yes it is. in many cough syrups, and things like nyquil, it contains alcohol. However it is a low amount of alcohol and would take a large amount to get drunk off of. Chances are you would get sick from the other ingredients first. plus theres a chance of overdoseing on the active ingredient. So only take it as directed on the bottle

In my opinion, they go for looks. Why else don't I have a girlfriend!?

lol same here

hm... i go for looks if I want to crush on someone, and average looking but good personality if i want to go out, it I just want to be friends looks don't matter as long as they got personality. (actually I've never done any of this, it just sounds like the right thing for me to do, lol.)

**The looks versus personality thing changes as you get older. During teen years, looks mostly outwiegh personality, as you get older you begin to appreciate that you find the hottest guy/girl around, and him/her be as interesting as mud, so your viewpoint on the looks versus personality thing changes. **

The idea that less good looking means superior personality is bollacks. If anything I'd say the opposite is true...but you shoudlnt make too many generalisations.