IM 13 YEARS OLD AND I REALLY WANT TO HAVE SEX

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just tell him how you feel. If he really cares, he'll respect your wishes. If he wants to share intamate moments with you, just start off with mutual masturbation. Don't have sex just because your friends are. Wait till your ready.

I think 13 is a pretty normal age to start masturbating.You agreef that yur too young to have sex so that shud end it for you. Your too young and realize that, you are in control of what you do and say, dont let it happen before your the one thats ready for it. Just because your bf is ready does not mean shit.

In reply to: i want to lose my virginity caz i want to no what its like You'll find out when it's time. There are a lot of things we want to know about, but a lot of them we have to wait. My 2 year old nephew would love to drive a tractor, but that ain't gonna happen for at least another decade or so. You probably would also like to drive a car, no? But you have to wait for that. It's part of being a kid. You need to wait until it's time. In reply to:and all of my friends have lost it I doubt that. Especially at your age. They may say that, but I bet you dollars to donuts they are lying. Don't fall for it. Be the one who has the guts and the maturity to say "well, that's just stupid. I haven't done it." In reply to: my boyfriend is a year older then me and he wants to have sex. Your boyfriend isn't even old enough to get a job. He doesn't need to be having sex. If he keeps pressuring you, tell him to go home and have a wank, you're not gonna do it.Do you understand that you are 13 years old? Barely a teenager? Please don't blow it. Everyone is posting and warning you about pregnancy and STD's and stuff. But it's way bigger than that. If you have sex now, I can guarantee you that you will regret it later and that the emotional repurcussions will be way beyond what you could imagine.

im 13 to and all i want to do is avoid sex becaz i no im to young and i dont want a guy to think that i just give my self away for fun

you know, im 13 and i know wat u mean when u say u want to have sex but if u r havin doubts waite till its time. plus, if its ur BOYFRIEND who wants it then he can waite till u r SURE that u r ready.....

Stop. Wait.I'm sure there are TONS of raging hormones in you, all screaming at you to BANG BANG BANG.Humans tend to do that.But what you really ought to do is wait. Why?Reason 1: You don't have to worry.I'm sure you've heard it. STDs and Pregnancy are things that can seriously hurt a person's entire life. And what if you parents find out? If your boyfriend tells a person who tells a person who is overheard by a person, and eventually your parents are banging on your door demanding to know if you did it with Roy McHotpants. Also, what about your reputation? It might seem cool now, but what happens in a few years? Trust me, it certainly isn't a cool thing in highschool to say you lost your virginity at a younf age with some guy in you don't like any more. But, if you wait, none of those demons will be nagging at you constantly while you try to live your 'magical life without virginity'.Reason 2: You can masturbate. Lots.Anywhere else, this would sound like profane rambling, but as much as morally uptight people try to put it down, masturbation is a GOOD thing. It's risk-free, you can tailor your 'partner' to fit your every carnal whim, and you'll learn a lot of things about yourself that can come in handy when you do it with a real person. Enjoy this 'you time', don't be ashamed of doing something that harms nobody and feels good. You're released your sexual tension, filling the need for sex that is right behind food water and shelter in most young people.Reason 3: You can take smaller steps.If you like your boyfriend, you don't want to ruin your relationship by screwing and then having nothing left. You'll both feel awkward about it if you rush, and chances are things between you two won't last. If you want to have more fun, and let him have more fun, then slowly work your way up. Start by simply speaking more about sex, in a playful manner, I bet he masturbates daily. Phone sex is a very good idea, you can get to know each other's ideal situations and deal with anything awkward they like without it being real. Then, if you two are still comfortable, after a good while you may want to start mutual masturbation. That's basically you and he both masturbating, in front of each other. After this, and that's a far off after, you may want to start doing it first manually, orally, and (when you're older!) actually. I'll not go into detail on those, but be aware that there are lots of things you can do to have fun without taking a leap off a cliff.Reason 4: You're not the only virgin. No, seriously, we're out there.By the end of highschool (including after prom night), only HALF of people have lost their viginity. Thats fifty out of one hundred people that have not had sex, the 'veterans' aren't even a majority! If your circle of friends is hyping sex, chances are some of them are flat-out lying about having done it. In time, you'll make the transition and find out the grass isn't much greener. And, of course, college means you'll have all sorts of opportunities.Reason 5: You'll be glad you waitedFar too many people have sex with someone 'just to do it', and regret it later. I don't mean 'I shoulda gotten the chocolate icecream instead of strawberry' kind, I mean the 'Oh f**k I was stupid, this sucks' regret. The consensus is that sex it better and more emotionally fulfilling if you and your partner really have strong feelings towards each other, and are mentally prepared. If you wait for that special boy (or hey, girl maybe) that you want to share the whole of yourself with and completely trust, you will be very happy about your decision later. Well, I hope I've managed to throw some positive lights on why to put off sex. And, if your boyfriend keeps pressuring you, warn him once, and then dump him. You ought to make him EARN it, we men are nothing without our motivations.

DON'T RUSH IT YOUR FRIENDS WILL LAUGH AT YOU.

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What the hell is wrong with the world today?

Shit, Sex USED to be an act in which a man and a woman who love eachother either A. Have sex to procreate, Or B. Because os lust/passion.

But now 13 year olds are losing their virginity? Wow.

First thing is, Wait until your ATLEAST 16 and be cautious about that kind of stuff. Use Birth Control/Condoms and make sure your partner is healthy.

Wonder where our tax money goes... hmmm... Not Sex-Ed!Sex-Ed sucked anyway, its mostly about rape now.... yeah thats about it.

Well, I can't stand in the way, but I would say wait, because your only 13.

i suggest you wait, you don't want to risk everything that comes along with sex, and you especially don't want to regret it.

oh the memories...i wanted to have sex when i was 13....well im almost 18 and that still hasent happened sigh but thats life

I'm 15 and thinking bout losing it but not sure.

Trust me. Do not have sex. You are only 13 and you will regret it. Let's say when you're older and you get married, would you want your husband to know that you were sleeping with other guys you're entire teenage years? Plus, the risks in having are WAY TOO HIGH to just do it without proper medical exams. And obviuosly, you do not want to get pregnant. Just wait until you're married and ready to get pregnant because accidental pregnancies happen a lot and there is always the chance of it happening if you were to have sex.

well i would wait till 15 or 16 and USE A F****** CONDOMlol

wait til your married.....

Definitly wait, its not worth it.

Hahaha, sorry but I find these sort of threads very funny, they come up all the time, but of course the answers remain the same, wait, and with good reason! Most, if not all 13 year old guys want to have sex now a days, but none of them are really ready for it. What do you expect as an answer here? Just wait, you'll get some soon enough, you'll be glad you waited.

Gomez1961, why not have sex? STD's is myth created by the condom industries to sell more condoms. Like Eskimos.... But every body here is speaking from experience. I too wanted to have sex at an early age but end up having sex at age 26 and still i didnot do it right so i went and bought all the instruction books and tapes (dvd's) and not the Porn where it an act for the mind created reality about sex. To day i am the best lover out there and would not have sex without a std test for both.... I blame Religion for this lack of education who makes us guilty about even the thought of having sex..... "YOU SHOULD INVEST IN A VIBRATOR AND LEARN WHERE TO TOUCH" its not nice learning via trail and error. Then find out your pregnent or worse yet have some disease............. So good luck in your search in finding a meaning full relationship.