ok i like this guy joe who ive only known for a few weeks now. we talk online alot and hangout through friends and i thought he liked me too cause he had asked my friend if i had a bf. but i went to this party the other night and i hooked up with this guy steve who i only met that night. we were both really drunk and i couldnt help not hooking up with steve he was all over me. but ever since that night i havent really talked to joe. he doesnt I.M me online anymore and when i I.M him, he always tells me he has to go real fast. and joe left the party early that night, but like every1 there knew about the hook up cause steve hasnt been with another girl since his other gf that he went out with for like 5 years so it was weird seeing him with me. so like every1 knew about it. but i dont know if joe knows about the hook up and i dont know if he thinks im a slut now. i dont know what to do... how do i get him back?? i just dont want him not to like me anymore or to find antoher girl...
Ask him out!
Let him know how you feel!
yeah hes probably feeling kinda rejected right about now
Well, you just learned a lesson in life... you screwed up, realize it, don't do it again.
Ok, now for the good news. What you did shouldn't mess things up if you go about things the right way. Explain to Joe that you really didn't mean to hook up with Steve. Also tell Joe that you've had an eye on him for a while and you like his personality, eyes, butt, etc. Whatever it is, be sincere.
if you go fooling around with people at parties you will develop a reputation quite fast. sounds like you dont want to be that sort of girl so knock it off. thats happened to me, ive liked someone and then either seen them making out with someone else or hearing about it, and im always immediately put off. how would you feel if you were the one that heard that he fucked some chick at a party when you thought he liked you? you can get all sorts of advice but you will learn the real lessons on your own. ive certainly learned a lot though my actions and the actions of others in my life.