I can't get over my ex no matter how hard I try and I don't really understand why.She's hotter then my current gf but ah well. She's no where near as compatible. my new gf stays with me for 2weeks or so at a time, while my ex I only got to really see once every couple of months (long distance relationships)And since she's been with her new boyfriend she turned into a self centered bitch and treated me like shit. we have nothing in common really, and I've got more then I would ever of gotten off her on my new girlfriend.Yet I want my ex back really bad (obviously I can't have her because she turned into a slut and can no longer handle waiting once a month to see me, even though her new bf is shitty) ah well.I don't understand why I can't get over her.
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Why can't I get over her?
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I think you are being really unfair to your current girlfriend. I would strongly recommend splitting up until you can commit yourself wholeheartedly to someone new - can you imagine how you'd feel if she was longing for her ex who was a lot sexier than you? I'm sure you wouldn't stick around.You need to realise that your ex obviously wasn't into you in the same way that you were into her.. she wasn't willing to wait four weeks to see you and moved on, got herself a new guy...
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man, your with someone now. and in my opinion, you dont deserve either of them. if you cant get over your ex, why in the hell are you with someone else?!?!! thats so mean!! seriously, smarten up, get over yourself, and figure out WHO you want to be with. dont string along someone else in the picture here. sooo not fair to this girl. if you want to get over your ex, STOP TALKING TO HER. simple as that.
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I already explained that to my gf but she doesn't want to break up.
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Originally Posted By: ashley69man, your with someone now. and in my opinion, you dont deserve either of them. if you cant get over your ex, why in the hell are you with someone else?!?!! thats so mean!! seriously, smarten up, get over yourself, and figure out WHO you want to be with. dont string along someone else in the picture here. sooo not fair to this girl. if you want to get over your ex, STOP TALKING TO HER. simple as that. Mean? you address me as mean and you have no clue to my gfs side of the story. I have helped my gf put a damper in her cutting, and given her a place to go to escape her stressful life for weeks at a time, while building her self esteem, while she knows of my current situation.And honestly, does it matter WHO I want to be with? I'm 15, and honestly anyone who's looking for a ever lasting relationship at that age isn't very bright.As for my ex, I do not talk to her, the only time I end up talking to her is when she calls me crying asking for help, then I can't bring myself to refuse it, even though when I call asking her for help she only brushes me away telling me it's to depressing to talk about.
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Dude,I'm 15 as well, and I get where you're coming from, I really do.I started to date a girl, then realized I wasn't over my ex, and things started going downhill. I snapped at my current girlfriend, and got annoyed with her quickly, and I got hurt everytime my ex would call or I would see her.BUT YOU CAN'T DO THATyou need to make a decision, and one of your options is NOT winnign your ex backshe's moved on, and no matter how bitchy she is, she's doing what she wants to do.You need to either move on right now and realize that your current girlfriend is a good girlfriend (if she's not, I guess you can't apply that, but then why would you be dating her?) OR break it off with this girl and clear your headCutting and stress aren't reasons to stay with someoneno matter what you thinkyou don't have to stop being friends just because you broke up
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See the thing is though, is it looks as if people has blown this all out of proportion.I'm fine with my new girlfriend I really do like her. and I'm not staying with her because of her problems, but I'm not exactly being unfair to her either.I still have feelings for the old version of my ex basically who's gone, I just need to find out how to get over that.Honestly at age of 15 you don't need to pour your heart and soul into a relationship. I mean don't get me wrong, treat them well care for them etc.But people seem to be acting like I'm engaged to this girl and it's not far for her because not 100% of my feelings go to her.
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if you say i have no clue and all that, dont ask for opinions then.