In reply to: well i dont mind the uglier looking gals with really cool and sweet personalities..actually i SUPPORT THAT..but its the UGLY STUCK UP AND SLUTTY chicks who THINK they are HOT that get on my nerves... I have a theory on Ugly sluts.They turn to slutty behavior as a way of compensating for their bad looks. In some circles, if a girl opens her legs, someone will stick something their. This satisfies their vanity, makes them feel like some super-hot-uber-vixen.Drop-dead gorgeous girls do not need to do this, they do not quite so much have to prove themselves to themselves as the ugly girls do. Thats not to say they arent sluts, but its less overt because they have less to compensate for, unless they have a serious vanity hang-up.This is why the most slutty, sexually aggressive girls I've met have been on the less good looking side of things, and it has usually been accompanied by a sort of tom-boyishness.Of course you will find sluts of all shapes, sizes, and looks, but I belief I have made an accurate observation.
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Who is SINGLE??
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well what is your definition of ugly?
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i think sluttyness is all down to a deeper insecurity, some people in my year at school are really good looking but still act slutty...like you said i think they come in all shapes and sizes, good looking whatever. i dont think you really can stereotype it to a general group, even the most good looking girls can be the most insecure in this way. anyways i hate the word 'slut', theres loads of man sluts out there too!
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In reply to:
well what is your definition of ugly?
Bad to look at. Tastes vary but you can make generalisations.
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In reply to: i think sluttyness is all down to a deeper insecurity, some people in my year at school are really good looking but still act slutty...like you said i think they come in all shapes and sizes, good looking whatever. Yes yes, that is quite true, but that deeper insecurity is going to be more likely to develope within people who have looks that are generally considered not good. How they then cope with this insecurity of course varies from their social situation, but in many circles sluttyness is an easy and obvious path to take.
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but see if you make those generalizations you automatically are going to be incorrect. I mean you are possibly classifying a lasy with distasteful looks and an amazing personality to say that she is ugly...When that is not true at all. Personality makes the whole package right. I would date a woman with distasteful looks with a great personality over someone who was "good" looking...And there are your exceptions, but refrain from generalizing, it only takes away from people or adds....
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completely agreeas they say..beauty is in the eye of the beholder
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jon, the more i read the more i really like you
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lol well things are getting clearer for me now. It just takes a level of understanding and that usually means experience and knowledge. My pet peeve is people who do not take care of themselves and have great personalities. I would not date them but I still would try and help them be healthier. And Angel there is alot more to me than just mechanical and school knowledge.
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I'm going on true experiences, rather than a fear of generalisations.I did state very clearly that my theory on sluts was about girls who are not considered good looking, rather than neecesarily ugly.
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yes but often sluts are like that b/c of the way they are treated. To say simply b/c an ungly girl sleeps with a lot of men is because she has a bad personality is wrong.There is just too much that could be happening. You need to remember that the social standards that exist today. It is more of what you look like than what you are like. I just think you belittled a lot of poor women who are not particulary attractive and have good personalities, but have had issues with acceptance and have found none b/c of society.Even with girls with bad personalities, there is good in them. I have discovered more often than not they chose not to show it b/c they are afraid what people will think of them. There is a lack of knowledge for people in todays society b/c what is on tv is what guides us a population now.
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In reply to: But what is a BOB? Battery Operated Boyfriend
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AHAHAHAHAHA
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What on earth are you on about? In reply to: yes but often sluts are like that b/c of the way they are treated. To say simply b/c an ungly girl sleeps with a lot of men is because she has a bad personality is wrong. I never said anyone has a bad personality. In reply to: There is just too much that could be happening. You need to remember that the social standards that exist today. It is more of what you look like than what you are like. I mentioned social standards myself, syaing that effects how people react to certain problems in their life, and that those dfrom certain social circles often turn to slutty behavior due to the aforementioned problems. In reply to: I just think you belittled a lot of poor women who are not particulary attractive and have good personalities, but have had issues with acceptance and have found none b/c of society. I never belittled anyone, I merely gave a reason on why some girls turn to slutty behavior. Of course society and its values are involved, I never said otherwise. In reply to: Even with girls with bad personalities, there is good in them. Its amazing how irrelavent that is to anything I said. Did I say "ugly women dont have good personalities". No. I know plenty of women who could be considered ugly but have splendid personalities.Perhaps you have gotten the bizarre and completely incorrect inmpression i was tlaking about all ugly women? I was just giving a very viable explanation why some girls behave like sluts. I said nothing whatsoever about whether or not they should behave like that nor did I bring up their personalities.
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well what you did was leave an incomplete observation. I just do not agree at all with your precieved views of sluts. It is like you assume that they are bad people b/c they sleep with me. If tehre is something I have learned is we are all equal. I just think you are a bit harsh in your generalizations of sluts. But I will grant you that there are those who are clueless to what they are doing, but most learn and some do not.
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I still dont know what your on about. In reply to: well what you did was leave an incomplete observation. I just gave a reason why some girls turn to sluttery, no more no less. In reply to: It is like you assume that they are bad people b/c they sleep with me Do you even read my posts? Go back to my original post, notice I said nothing about good or bad. Then in my previous post i just made I point out the fact that I am not syaing anything good or bad about anyone, not about anyones behavior or perosnality. I made an observation, without any judgementality. In reply to: If tehre is something I have learned is we are all equal. Who said we werent? I didnt bring up these issues, why are you argueing them with me In reply to: I just think you are a bit harsh in your generalizations of sluts. But I never said anything against them. In reply to: But I will grant you that there are those who are clueless You may well grant it, but I never said they were clueless.Go have this rightous arguement with someone else cos you dont seem to realise what I said attal. Are you confusing thing the topic starter said with what I said purhaps?
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I will add I dont have a moral opinion on this whatsoever. I have no probalem with how anyone behaves as long as they leave me out of it.
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I am not going to look back b/c I have to go to class...so we shall leave it as it stands and let it go...
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Just take your rightousness and stop looking for fight where there isnt one to be had.
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not rightousness...more lack of wanting to think too hard.See I know your intentions, I just do not want people to start knocking people with different views...so misguided angst against mis conceptions.