ok, im seeing this guy and i havent lost my virginity yet and this guy wants to be sex buddies and his mate sed if we had sex then it may lead to a relationship which i wud really like. Therefore im in two minds weather to do it or not. If id lost my virginity before i wud as sex is fun but i havent so wot do guys think. Do u think hes using me for sex? Have u done it before? If he were u, wud u take it further after? Please help as tiem is running out!!!! :confused:
GUYS AROUND 18 I NEED YOUR HELP!!!!
If he said he wants to be sex buddies, then I think that's all he wants. Essentially to use you for sex.
Sounds like a bit of an ass to me.
But his mate sed it mite lead somewhere? He's really nice to me too. Hav you used a girl for sex before?
Have to agree with sadbuttrue on this one. First have sex, then, maybe, he'll have a relationship with you? Yeah, that's a line most guys have used at one time or another to get some ass without the relationship....
If the thought of something makes me giggle for longer then 15 seconds, I'm to assume that I am not allowed to do it.
you're being used
~*~Smile, it's the second best thing you can do with your mouth.~*~
In reply to:- It is fun but how do you know?
If id lost my virginity before i wud as sex is fun
From experiance, going in as a fuckbuddy can lead from emotionless sex to a very uncomfortable relationship. Especially if your a virgin. Chances are you'll get obsessed since a lotta women get obsessed with the men they loose their virginity to for some reason.
If he starts getting emotions and wants a relationship too then great but i don't think this is the best method, going in as a fuckbudy will usually end up with someone getting hurt.
Because if you feel one way and he feels the other it'll ruin whatever kinda relationship you have.
When his mate said that, he was probably just referring in general to that sort of situation, in that, it is entirely possible, but it's more than likely that's all he meant, not that he has any inside information.
No I haven't used a girl for sex. I've never even had sex (although tomorrow may change that).
Besides, if this guy did want a relationship, surely he'd ask you instead of simply asking you for sex?
hes using u
Sounds like you have a thing for this guy. Unfortunately, the downside is much stronger than the up.
Let's say you are sex buddies for a while and you two decide to get together in a relationship. Things may me all and well, then again he may expect you to have even more sex with him. There is a chance that things will go okay, but him being THE ONE seems to be slim to null.
Now, let's say you decide to be sex buddies with him. You get attached to him and all he wants is sex. When a female has sex, especially the first time, she becomes very attached to the person. This is often caused by the chemicals released by the female brain when sex is had. You're attached while he's not and therefore you suffer long heart ache. More than likely you'll keep having sex with him because you think there may be a chance to have a relatoinship. Eventually you will end up with a broken heart.
So, my advice to you is to skip this guy and find a nice boyfriend who wants more than sex.
I agree with websexinfo. I don't think you should lose your virginity to this guy. You should find someone who will love you and you will love them back. That will make sex a lot better.
Please visit my forum!
<a href="http://s3.invisionfree.com/Total_Chaos/index.php?act=idx" target="_blank">http://s3.invisionfree.com/Total_Chaos/i...
WTF! sex is something done between two(or i suppose more people),not for his freind to involved even in match making a shag.
secondly the idea is fun,but i think sex can led to emotions and then fun turns serious,you cant control what you'll be feeling next,so dont give into being a fun fuck/slash sex buddy.
i just dont thnk it will be rewarding.
unless you're absolutely certain.
not with this guy anyway,he sounds like a creep!