IS THIS WIERD?!

---

OK, THIS IS REALLY EMBARRASSING FOR ME, BUT I WAS WONDERING, I HAVE BEEN MASTERBATING FOR A WHILE (I'M 15) AND I CAN ONLY FIT ONE FINGER IN WITHOUT WITHOUT IT HURTING LIKE HELL. AM I LIKE WAY TOO TIGHT DOWN THERE, OR IS THAT NORMAL? -XOX- BRITT

well typing in all caps isnt you may want to get that checked out, but otherwise you may not be relaxed or aroused enough

I'd say you are pretty normal. It's going to take time for you to work up to handling more and plus you are talking about a very sensative area.

its not wierd..well maybe it is..but its the same for me too!lol =[

I think its normal. I wouldnt worry about it, whats the point of puting a bunch of fingers in or whatever.

haha yeah thats true

Don't worry about it, honey - you are still a virgin - one finger is fine. Many virgins don't put anything bigger than a tampon up there, its so tight. Someday, you or your boyfriend can gradually begin to loosen you up when you know you will be having sex. No need to rush it.

You have to remember that the vaginal wall is all muscle and muscle and stretch, bend, tear, etc. So yes its normal and yes eventually you will "stretch out" and be able to handle more.

(I'm sorry if that came out creepy or anything...I'm a biology and anatomy major so I know a lot of weird crap)

I think you're perfectly normal. My gf had quite the same problem with you. She was so worried that she asked her own doctor about it and he just calmed her down. But, we both tried for a long period to have sex and she is much more relaxed now. So, you shouldn't worry, because you are only at the beginning.

yeah, i just wanted to clear this up a bit. i'm like not complaining about not being able to fit more, it just kinda scares me that when i do have sex, that it will hurt like even more then the first time should =/

I believe (from what I have heard) that sex hurts every female the first few times, but as said, pain will turn to pleasure when your muscles adjust. So I believe it is normal.

Could be at least part of the hymen is still intact, too.

It takes time to stretch it out...so dont rush...just give it time! i*m me at erka derka 91