Online romance

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ok, i wanna no what ur guys oppinions of this is.

do u think its possible 2 fall in love online and live happily ever after?
does this ever actually happen?
whouldnt u b embaressed whenever sum1 asked u how u met ur partner?

I totally feel for a guy on-line. One of the sweetest guys I ever met. We talked for several months on-line and on the phone and than we flew to meet each other several times.Problem is on-line relationships, are generally long distance relationships and those are hard to carry, especially once romance kicks in. We eventually got very frustrated and things got too over whelming and now we don't even talk.I know there are people with success stories but that's just my story.

well me personally...I think it is entirely possible, but you have to eliminate the distance somehow..man this is so hard...lol...omg..hahahaha

i think it is, luckily with me shes only 2 hours away,but i had a neighbour who lived across the street met some guy online who lived in london last summer she moved there i think she married him but not sure

I think its possible, i mean if your in love with someone youll find a way to make it work, it just depends on how hard two want to try make it work.

I totally agree. I have personal experience in this field right now. The amazing phone calls, long talks...the distance is a problem, but the thought of it going away soon....oh man, better zip it...lol

ive made really close friendships online which could have gone further i guess, but i purposely kept distance because for me..i just get freaked out in the end by that prospect, and if you get too obsessed with one person online, it will kinda take over your life..to me online is not the same as real life. i could eventually meet some people i met online as friends and then perhaps i wouldnt rule out relationship, but im still sceptical. i dont think you can ever really know someone properly just through the internet.nowadays you here quite a lot of sucess stories of online relationships

YES, i met my manthing online in a chat room over 9 years ago now, and we got married last year after living with eachother for 9 years.......we have a child together and are really really happy.........and no im not embarrassed about how we met at all, it was just one of those things and im thankful it happened.

wow angel that is so awesome, I never knew....Maybe that can work for me. .....if I do not get beat up by (blank) then I am the luckiest man alive.

I can't beleive you didn't know that Jon?? where the hell ya been LOLI hope it does work for you and that you are as happy as I am........

Thanks you, well I am right now and so is she...It is the test of time, that will determine it all...

lol I have been here, lol....

yeah it is tough as fuck....but when both parties are willing to do what it takes to make sure it lasts and is done right....and those long talks at night...

Its possible. I posted about my experiences with this girl not so long ago asking for advice. The problem is it can be hard to take it to the next step.

I think it can definetly work, I've never done it myself.. but you should be extra careful though.. you never know whos on the other end.

Been there done that. Got burned doing it and vowed never to do it again....BUTI changed my mind. And I do think it's possible if you meet someone you believe in and have faith in and you trust and vice versa.No, I wouldn't be embarassed. There's nothing to be embarassed about. Way back when...people used to write letters (snail mail) back and forth to each other before they ever met in person. It's not a new idea - just a twist on an old one.I don't know what situation you're in or if you are even finding yourself in this situation...but if you are and you care about him or her don't push him/her away because you're scared. Just go for it..because eventually if you push enough they'll go away when what you really want them to do is just stay.

i think it can work even though i havent had an online relationship myself.

A friend of mine was in a very long online relationship. She never met the guy but they were in love and one day she was gonna meet him and they were gonna get married.

As soon as some guy in real life caught her attention, she forgot about him completely.

I know it's possible. Happens alot. Please don't beat me up or scream and yell but I REALLY REALLY REALLY do not want to meet my partner/lover/husband on the internet. For some reason I just don't. I don't think it's bad but I don't want to talk to him and be like "oh yeah let's meet in so and so" I need it to be more romantic. Like I accidentally bump into him at a beach in... Australia during the sunset. Ok now I'm dreaming again. But you know what I mean. Must be an accident or destiny. Something! Nothing technical. Alllll coinky dink.

I met mine on the chat thingy on the phone. We just sent voice mail to each other, while I was scrambling to Western Union to send money to the damn company just for 20 min of phone time I don't know how much, but it was expensive. She finally called me and we met the next day. Sometimes I wish to go back in time other times I just sit back and enjoy. ie she got some Spanish Fly from a friend, and she thinks that it really works. So times like these, I enjoy. I got to create my own little bottle of alcohol and call it Supreme Spanish Fly, that way I have to use my hand less often.

cheers guys, urve given me alot 2 think about...i still think id b embaressed tho, its seems so desperate( no offence 2 u guys) but it seems 2 me like saying "im 2 ugly 2 get a man/woman in person" ..which im not..i donno, i no it happens abit these days but its just a bit weird 4 me.and go angel tho!!! i didnt think it was really possible. glad u found ur happly ever after.