Losing Her Is Not An Option.

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She is gorgeous, Iv never seen a picture of her that does her justice, personality is kick ass too, its why Im so fucked up over her, it why I asked her to marry me, its why Im willing to go get shit from the truck in the cold at 1 am for her. Anyone that knew her in person would be jealous of me for having her.

aww I'm gonna cry! that really is beautiful thing though. and another inspiration for me. that sounds hallmarkish but it's true. after the whole thing about my parents finalizing the divorce and crap and all the messed up history I didn't really care too much about marriage and whatever. like it wasn't as big of a deal to me as it used to be simply for the fact that I didn't believe it anymore because of their separation. i don't know if that makes sense, but you guys help give that tinge of inspiration lol

Makes perfect sense. My dad got in a bad motorcycle accident after just turning 18, paralized himself, I was 8 months old. He spent six months in a coma with my mom at his bedside wiping his ass and shit. He woke up feeling less of a man than before (for obvious reasons, his body was useless) and divorced my mom after waking up.

Fast forward 34 years, exactly why I'm never going to marry. I don't view anything as being forever, not even the health we take for granted on a day to day basis.

I didnt care about it either, I WAS married and it was a horrid fucking mess, I swore id never do it again. I changed my mind about a year after we stated dating, I was inspired by the right woman and now belive marriage can be a great thing instead of a miserable fucking existance. Its never gonna be good if your not with someone who cares as much about you as you do about them and is willing to forget little shit and work on the big shit.We had had a big fight, nearly broekn up over some shit actually, and my son had a diabetic emergency and ended up in the ER, the second she heard about it she was at the hospital sleeping in the car with me, worried about MY kids and making sure they were ok. She cares as much about them as she does her own.It was a shitty time and it also got my head out of my ass in how i thought about her, I asked her to marry me then, she moved in with me soon after and at christmas after the santa deed was done we went to bed and i pulled out a big as diamond and asked her right. I know what I got in her, its nothing I ever want to let go of, and we honestly are pretty fucking happy when we are together.

I never intended to marry again, I changed my mind, one day you might too. Edit:What I meant is never say never, much like selling your body for cash if the customer was right...

I never intended to get married again either. I watched my parents go through a nasty divorce when I was 25 and I was married to the biggest jerk in the world for 8 years.When I met Chance I was at a point in my life where I hated men and swore I would NEVER get married again. But he changed my outlook on many things; he is good to me, he is good to my kids, and he is a very interesting person. And I would love to write more but work is very busy today, so I must get out of here and get something done. Damn it I need a day off!

note: Interesting means fucking crazy.Shes heard the stories, seen the pics and met my friends, as well as seeing it firsthand for the last 4 years, well 4 years come the 27th of this month. A hot girl walking down the street in a thin leathe jacket in the dark on a sunday night in the snow, how could I not pull over and take her to dinner?

damn man, start being a man.that girl is YOUR b1tch, not the other way around.first of all, let me get one thing across to you : SHE DOES NOT LOVE YOU. Love would mean respect. You just can't love someone you don't respect. And her ordering you around, and lying to you is a clear sign of loss of respect.second, NEVER judge women by what they say. Just think of everything they say as a useless function of there mouth when they're not sucking you c0ck. Instead, look at her actions, they will tell you all you need to know.Do you understand what you are doing wrong?the MAN in the relationship has to be the one in control, it is how nature intended it to be. She is constantly testing you and pushing the limits on how much she can get away with. You just doing what she tells you makes you seem like the b1tch in the relationship. The next time she tells you to do something, DON'T. But don't be mean to her. For example, she says: "throw away my trash", you should say something like: "ur MY b1tch, you should be throwing MY sh1t away". but do it with a smile so she knows you're just playing. Just remember, NEVER let her disrespect you in ANY way.if you hangs up on you for any reason, the next time you see her, say "if you EVER hang up on me again, we're through." in a serious tone. If she has any respect for you at all, she'll never do it again, no matter how heated an argument may be.just looking at your title, i could tell that you are not the kind of person that can have a successful relationship.you should never have a relationship to the point where you can't simply walk away. if you keep letting her disrespect you, then it's not before long that she is gonna be with another guy. I don't mean to hurt ur feelings, but i'm willing to bet that she has already slept with other guys behind your back.if you really think you "need" this girl. I would suggest you take some time off from the relationship.Improve all the aspect of your life. Be at the point where you have girls lining up to be your gf. Don't be afraid to flirt with other girls. Let her know that you could walk away at any time, and SHE is the one that has to WORK to keep you around.Man, i really feel ya. I think you need more help than reading just my words. I really don't have the time to go into detail about things. But if you really want to have a chance at saving this relationship go to sosuave.com copy this post on that site. the people there will be much more helpful that this site for relationships. Good luck man, i really do wish the best for you.

Why is it only when you're rarely on, you say the stupidest shit?

Originally Posted By: Virtual_Star

Why is it only when you're rarely on, you say the stupidest shit?

what's so stupid about it?
does he not need to man up and tell her that she is his bitch?

ha, shit's not censored... awesome.

Originally Posted By: sex godwhat's so stupid about it?does he not need to man up and tell her that she is his bitch? That right there. Calling any woman a bitch is never going to get you any respect. You'll be less of a man if you go around with that chauvinist attitude.

If someone talked to me the way you have just spouted off, they would get a serious slap round the face - and I wouldn't bother wasting my time on someone so arrogant and up themselves.You seriously do come across really badly when you say things like that. I hope no woman is ever feeling so worthless as to put up with your shit.To the original poster - you are being treated really badly, and while I do not agree with sex god 's approach to women, I do think that you should not let yourself be treated like that.

Lets get something straight, if shes your bitch, she isnt worth being with.I have a GF, shes my equal, not my bitch, she helps me I help her, no one is the others boss.Your in for a long, shitty lonely fucking life if you think she belongs to you.Your a punk ass kid who couldnt get laid in a whore house with a fucking visa gold card and your giving advice to someone to treat her like shit and man up?Your a fucking punk, One day when you come here to write about how some girl that was your bitch whooped your ass and what do you do now, Im going to laugh till I piss my pants.No woman with a brain in her head, or a shred of dignity would put up with that shit.You have a GF? Ever had one? fuck son, your sister made your account and you had the tag sex godess for how long till a mod was nice enough to change it for you because you were to stupid or lazy to open a new account for yourself and choose your own name, and your giving other people advice about how to keep a girl and be happy?Did your parents have any kids that lived?I suggest you start reading the boards and stop trying to give any advice on a subject you obviously know nothing about.

Quote:or from me committin suicide and endin my life... That is all i need to see to know that this is a VERY unhealthy relationship. Doesnt that scare you? That you could consider ending your life over someone who treats you like shit? Someone who doesn't show you ANY appreciation.. someone who hurts your feelings and basically embaresses you (i dont know if it does to you but it sure would embaress me). How can you be happy with someone who makes you want to slit your wrists and committ suicide?Maybe what you should do is rethink your WHOLE situation.I really want to send you an email that an amazing person.. who used to be part of this site sent me when I was having issues with my boyfriend.. its an amazing read and really cleared things up for me.If you'd like to read it.. feel free to PM me your email address:)

life scares me, there is no such thing as trust or monogomy, every1 cares about them selves, dont get in a relationship. people are all the same they are all selfish dont care about you...look out for yourself man ...screw her girls are fucking fake and cheat on you man, trust me im wiser now

I thought tha way once, now I can promise you as an unbiased third party to you, its bullshit, love is real, and it does exist.the biggest one is my kids, Id die for any of them if it meant they were better off. the other is my woman, shes my equal ( I actually think Im dating above my own class and shes better but she is at least equal)and while iM not 100% certain I could die for her if needed I can honestly say Id risk high odds of death for her.Shes helped me with more than just the sex and teh someone to be with.I didnt find her till I was 32, she was 30. peoples mistakes is thinking they have to find that one person right away. It takes time, some find them at 20 some at 16 and some take longer. Just have an open mind and keep options open, dont lock out that one person because you think the whole gender is shit.