okay, i have probably mentioned this a couple times,im in love with this girl. i have been good friends with her for a while now, someone who knows her well and knows i like her told me she likes me, and told her i like her. they where doing this with my best interests in mind, and apparently the girl likes me but is also getting over someone else. i kind of think that maybe the girl doesnt like me as much, because im being kind of nervous around her lately. i think if i go for it now, i wont have to worry about that, but im scared of rejection. oh, and her mum is very ill, so it could be a hard thing for her to think about while dealing with all this trauma. on the other hand it could be a comfort to her to have a bf because she tells me she wants to have someone, what should i do?
When do i tell her?
Go ahead with it. It might be a good thing for her to have someone to find comfort in while her mom is ill. But at the same time, when my friend's mum died she pushed her boyfriend away. They need their space sometimes. So if you ask her and she says that she is not ready at the moment, take it as that. She is not ready. Do not consider it a final no.
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I would just be her friend. When the fog clears she will know who she wants. It is never a good idea to date someone after they got out of a relationship. You could end up being a rebound and dropped like bad habit. Don't rush something because in the end someone will eb rushing to get out.
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well, they didnt break up recently, but she talks to him a lot so she still has lingering feelings for him...does that make it different?