Gettin over a grudge

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How do you guys get over your grudges? I'm not usually one to hold a grudge because I get treated badly so much I learned to shrug it off but depending on how sensitive it is and how hard it hits you, it's kind of hard.

I dont.I got my ass beat after being pissed on in teh bathroom in kindergarden.after that i learned to fight and the bastard that did it moved, it took me till I was 22 or so to find his ass in a bar, I asked him if his name was eddie so and so, he said yes and then said your chance right ? so I hit the fucker with the half pitcher of beer i had left and proceded to punch him on th floor till the bouncers pulled me off of him. I dont let shit go, Ill get mine if it takes me years to do it.

but I didn't think violence resolved anything

Exactly!!!

he had that ass beating coing for about 15 or 16 years. it resolved an unresolved issue from my childhood and allowed me to put it to rest.That, is all I care about, I explaned why I was kicking his ass whie I was hitting him remeber kindergarged wack remeber how funny it was wack when ya pissed on me wack and kicked my ass wack is it funny now mother fucker wack wack wackhis busted up face was earned all those years prior, it just took a while to catch up to him because he moved, karma brought him back to get his ass beat, Imean what are the odds that I run into him all those years later in one of several bars in another city ?

I'm sure you won't see him again. but that does sound like u,chance

all I know is that ther had to be payback for the humiliation and suffering caused to me as a young boy. Id do it again and if the bouncers had not pulled me off and tossed me to the police, Id of pissed on him laying there when I was done beating him. anyone can call it what they like, I call it justice nearly 2 decades late.

It may not be healthy for me to be this way, it may lead to an early death by gun or knofe or stress, but Ill tell ya what it feels really good to bust u some mother fucker so deserving of it and really if ya think about it, the humiliation and ass beating I got that day in school shaped what I became today as all the fight after and my learned ability to fight and refusal to take shit from anyone, all stemmed from that incident.Im one of th rare one sthat can trace back to what moment I had an serisous life alternating course change. thats sometihng that peope pay therapists to discover

Hmm.. I hold grudges.. I dont make the first step.. but I always forgive.One thing for sure is that I am the queen of revenge

Well, That just scared me a little...i live close to you! what if i do something bad, are you going to take vengance on me?

I am the King of masterminding revenge.

of course not!!!i loove you

hug Yaaaa....aaayyy! Even more than milk and cookies !! Lets Spread the love around the world! it's the cool thing to do now, i made it a 'fad'

well good thing i dont follow fads then,but yeah i hold grudges lol,i still have a grudge on my parents son for destroying a bear i got in kindergarten,of course i hate him for a number of other reasons but

How do i get over grudges?i don't.i swear i can hold a grudge forever.i still have pleanty of grudges from when i was 4.(i also remember stuff from forever ago) :angry:i just can never think of any revenge.

a grudge on your parents son ?wouldnt it be easier to say your brother, or half brother or step rother or what ever ?or is that hatred just so strong that you cant identify him as your brother ?

It is hard, I just remember it is pointless to keep bringing it up and you can move on.

yup i cannot stand him hes a fucking asshole in all aspects

I try not to hold grudges, but there are some times I can't help but do it because I'm as stubborn as they come! I'm a pretty easy going gal, but you push my buttons the wrong way and you can bet your ass you'll feel my wrath! I'm a pretty laid back person,but if you push me too far you'll wish you didn't. As they say, hell hath no fury than a woman scorned, and believe me, I'll rain hell all over someone's parade if they piss me off enough.

Im KNOWN for holding grudges