She cries during orgasm. Should I be worried?
Is this unusual?
I believe her when she says it's just her emotions taking over and she's not feeling any pain.
However, when she masterbates(we sometimes do so together/each other) she doesn't cry.
I'm just worried about her and I don't want to keep asking her about it, and I really don't want to take her to an unannouced GYN visit. heh
I love her and want her to be safe and okay, maybe I'm just being paranoid?
If she says she's physically OK, then she's OK.
I can't say about the emotional side. I've read about women crying before.
I have to say that orgasming during sex/play with someone else is far more of an emotional response that orgasming by yourself through self stimulation. If she says shes ok, then just believe that she is
Alrighty, thanks for the advice, it's much appreciated.
Very normal.
It's perfectly normal hun. I remember my first ever orgasm and I was so blown away by it I cried and shook for about half an hour. Don't worry about it it's all ok just carry on the brill job you're obvioulsy doing !!
Nice one!!!If i knew you i would give you a slap on the back and buy you a pint.Mr. Nuts
wow I always thought, personally, that crying is a bad thing for a woman to be doing during an orgasm. But that makes sense.
lol... I've never cried, but I do know that it does bring a release of emotion. Once with the manthing is was amazing, and I went kinda hysterical almost, couldn't stop giggling
Thanks for the comments everyone, they are appreciated.
I have never cried but sometimes my emotions just like go crazy after. Can you tell what kinda cry its, happy, sad, ooww that hurts?
im sure its all normal....after i orgasm i go hysterical laughing, my bf cant even touch me without me laughing. he always asks me if im laughing at him bc hes bad, but thats TOTALLY not it lol if anything hes the best ive ever had, thats just my way of orgasm
just to present the down side of what could be going on, tell her to look in to endometriosis, try www.EndoFacts.comI have it and one of its side effects is pain durring sex. I have a really high pain tolerance so most of the time if i start hurting my guy never knows cuz i know how much he freaks out about it. Any ways you can tell her to look into it and see if she can relate to any of the symptoms and what not... but odds are she doesnt, but its better to ahve it caught early than late... if they dont catch it in time and monitor it, it can keep her from every having kids.But like i said, she probably doesnt have it, but its better to be safe than sorry right??
Good point but I beleive this person has no pain whatsoever.
As no one else has stepped up and said it, I feel obligated to admit:I am a crier. No, it isnt because I hurt in anyway and I doubt that this guy's girl is in any physical pain. No, it doesnt happen all the time...it actually only happens when it's a really, really, REALLY intense orgasm. No, I dont cry when I masterbate, no matter how good it is. And it only seems to happen when I'm with someone I'm extremely comfortable with (never one night stands and such, no matter how great the sex is).I honestly dont know why I cry. As only really intense orgasms bring me to tears, I suppose its just the magnitude of the release. If I wanted to try to psychoanalyse the situation, I suppose I'd say that I'm a pretty stressed out person. I've had a hell of a lot going on for a very long time, and I sometimes wonder if its all that pent up emotion and stress that Im not able to display (for various reasons) in everyday life simply exploding out of me when I finally relax enough to have mindblowing sex. Mind you thats just a half thought theory on my own crying. Im not even gonna try to make any across the board assumptions.My advice to the guy dealing with the crier is to enjoy it! Have the same pride in her emotional outburst as you would if she were a screamer, a biter, a moaner, a clawer, a curser, a preacher, etc.And whatever you do, DON'T freak out on her. I had one boyfriend get weirded out and we had nothing but crappy sex for the rest of our relationship because I could never get really comfortable with him. It made things very boring. Just hold her tight and feel manly; you're so freaking good shes crying with gratitude
What a great response! Sorry to hear about the pent up stress and emotions. For your own health you do need to get them out. Thankfully that's what a good orgasm does.
I made my girlfriend collapse. That was funny,yet worrying.
