i try not to regret anything, because focusing on things that could have been differently in the past and dwelling on them makes you blind to things happening in the future. you cant change the past so i guess you just have to accept it, deal with it, and move on.
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Regrets
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I regret being a "nice guy", a term I am often called.It gets you fucking nowhereBut given the choice of whether I would do it again. I would. So then I guess it is not regret. Between doing what is right and what is easy, I would choose what is right every time. No matter how much shit you will have to wade neck-deep through.A maxim to live by. And I do.Mr. Nuts
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you may think being a nice guy get you no where but it does
no one will think badly of you , and every day you go home knowing , i didnt screw soemthing up , and if thats not enough to help you sleep at night i dont know what is
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Your right and that is my motive behind it. Only problem is it makes you feel at times you are getting nowhere. Even if you’re not.Mr. Nuts
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a lot of them
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Do I ever. I've made many mistakes, and also had some bad luck. But I've had a lot of good luck too. I try to look ahead.
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regrets? not really. I mean I have made mistakes of course, but I learn from them so as not make it a regret.
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i agree with walken - as long as you can make a mistake a lesson it'll be ok. (at least not too bad.)i regret hating the *$%^ out of my uncle, then he just died all of a sudden. i still don't like him, but came to accept that people are all different, unique. well, but life goes on and i didn't dwell to much on it. perhaps it's disrespectful to just forget about ones that have passed away (which i doidn't do, i still think about him from time to time.) but the living have to keep on going.
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i have so many regrets.. i dont know where to begin...
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I regret not making the most of my college career. I'll be a senior in the fall and I think about all organizations I could've been involved in and all the people I could've met and I get sad.Oh and I regret not being more aggressive in getting the things (and people) that I wanted...
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I can't really say I have regrets, but I can say that every choice I make and have made I've learned from. All the things I've ever done in my life or have had happen I've learned from and it has shaped me into the person I am today. There is no point in having regrets really; you can't change the things that have happened in your life, all you can do is grow from them.
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I totally agree sis. I don't have any regrets as such, as i make decisions to the very best of my ability at the time i make them, and i know- at that time - its the right thing to do..........knowing that, there is no need for regrets if the decisions were made for all the right reasons, we can't know what will be in the future, we have to make the most of the present and if years down the line you can see with hindsight that the decision was the wrong one, it doesn't matter cos it was made for the right reasons.
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i was in love with one of my best friends (female) but never actually told her , we kissed but only as friends having a laugh etc , i would have done anything for her and she had to move away to london so we ended up splitting apartwish i told her so thats my regret , i was only 16 though lol
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Hey nuts i know what you mean.I've lost count of how many times people have said to me about being a nice guy.It has got me absolutely nowhere.Just walked over and passed by.But i can't change who i am (believe me i've tried) and that's why I always find myself ending up in hurtful situations.There are no fairy tale endings in reality unfortunately.
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i disagree on the "nice guy" comment , i agree good things tend to happen to horrible people
but a nice guy will be rembered , just think about it if you ever go into a shop yes the bastard will be in charge but its the helpful kind cash assaiant that you rember, and you always tend to have support , im a "Nice guy" as much as i can be and once a bully tried pikcing on me and a room of strangers that dont relaly know me other thant the " pleasnt nice guy" stood up for me and drove the bully away , it was a really nice gesture
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I try not to have regrets"The past makes you are dont let it be your burden"Sorry i love quoting my fav films