I sometimes worry that I am gay and I don't know a way to break the fealing that I am gay... I was once pressured into stripping infront of another friend (who is also a guy) and have been fealing that i am gay... WHAT DO I DO?!?!?!?!?!(I am 13)
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I worry that I am gay.. Is there a way to break it
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If your gay your gay, there isn't really much you can do about it. There have been homosexual people who try to go through life as a heterosexual but it's usually a miserable life and/or it almost never works out.
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Thats the thing... I don't want to be gay.. So i hope that i am not.... I just look at a guy differently than how I used to.. Kinda weird
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You're a bit young to have a definite handle on your sexual orientation, so I wouldn't worry about it for now. But if you are gay, then you're gay. Not liking it is like not liking being black or white.
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alright... Thanks for the help
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Early on when sexual and romantic feelings first intensify at puberty, we often know about our own gender much better than the other gender, so sometimes the feelings start with our own gender but change over a bit later. As Steve said, there's no need to label yourself - just see what happens.What happens under pressure doesn't indicate your real interests. Things like that don't make you gay, and getting hard and horny over it doesn't mean it either. Lots of guys do things with each other in their teens, but they are still as straight as most people (relatively few people are absolutely entirely straight).
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Very Nice.... Well written.... Kudos!
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just reading some post about guys being afraid their gay, it sounds like that if they lable them selfs gay, they cant be with girls anymore. you can be bi. like both guys and girls. and u may even have more sexaul experences with girls then guys. just cause u think a little different to one guy, or do somthing like strip infront of a guy, does not make u gay. u can still like girls
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Were you having fun stripping for a male friend? If you didn't have your religious beliefs and people telling you it's wrong to be gay, would you take it further? Think about these things. If you felt you could do whatever the hell you wanted with no pressure from anyone else, would you be with a guy? If the answer is no, then you're not attracted to guys and there's no way you're gay. My personal belief is that you're born that way. You could have a small interest or curiousity with the same sex, but if you couldn't cross the line or be with a person in a relationship, you're not gay. I'm starting to be curious about other girls, and it's cool b/c our society is more accepting of it. HOwever, I'm never going to be with a female. I'm not drawn to them the way I am to men. You were probably just experimenting, being adventurous, and having a lil' fun. No BIG DEAL!
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i have 22 gay friends of mine and they were 13 too but dont fell bad what i was told its fun but im a girl so i dont know
