Quote:and besides this i think or at least i feel like most men today have bigger dicks than those in the past. What makes you think this? From watching porn? Let me tell you, porn is not accurate to true society. Obviously for porn, they are going to want a guy who is above average in penis size, so you cannot use porn as a way of determining what's "normal".Most of the men I have been with have been pretty much average in size. Truthfully, I have only been with 2 guys that I would truthfully say were big, and you know what (and I'm not just saying this), they were the worst in bed. I personally always broke it down to that they felt because they had a larger penis they didn't have to try and that sex should automatically be good. I'd rather have a guy who is average in size and rockin in bed then a large penis and like a dead fish in bed lol. Just some food for thought.
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Is there a safe way to get more size?
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If those people with the 8 inch cocks in porn movies were sooo rare then you wouldn't find many huge dicks in amateur porn. I really don't think that 7 inches are that rare. I also think that if you have a certain height, like 6 feet, you should have at least 6 or 7 inches to look normal. Anything below that looks ridiculous. It is simply a question of aesthetics and symmetry. I am simply very unhappy with my body and it has been like this since I was young and I always felt like something wasnt normal. I was skinny and weak and couldnt grow a beard and already back then I thought that I'd never marry or have a gf. I am still convinced that something is not normal and the fact that some arrogant doctors didnt find anything doesnt change this at all.
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Didn't they find a low testosterone level? Do they consider it still in the normal range?
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Yes, it is still in the "normal" range. It was like 251ng/dl and the normal range goes from 250 to 1000.
It applies to men from 18 to 100. It's ridiculous. I already had low T when I was 20 and if I was 100 and had the same low T then it would be as "normal".
This is simply ridiculous + I have all those symptoms.
No muscles, skinny, weak, fat deposits on hips and ass where only women store fat, depression, low libido.I could simply have gone to an urologist and gotten T injections but I was scared of this step without a doctor clearly telling me that I have to do it. I couldnt simply do it on my own.
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I should point out that testosterone injections, though they might make you hairier and help with some other issues, would not make your penis grow more at this stage. Penis growth at puberty is under the influence of dihydrotestosterone, not testosterone itself, and after puberty the tissues become insensitive to it.
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Quote:If those people with the 8 inch cocks in porn movies were sooo rare then you wouldn't find many huge dicks in amateur porn. Not true. How many people do you really think do porn? When compared to those of us who do not do porn, its a very small percent of the population. Using porn as a base to compare penis size to what is suppose to be "normal" is not an accurate source. Quote:I also think that if you have a certain height, like 6 feet, you should have at least 6 or 7 inches to look normal. Anything below that looks ridiculous. It is simply a question of aesthetics and symmetry. I'm not so sure I agree with this statement, even though I get what you are trying to say. Height has no more bearing on penis size then the size of your hands or feet does. Its mostly based upon genetics, which is something that we don't have control over and worrying about it and causing yourself undue stress is not worth it. I really just think you are putting too much weight on penis size. I put a lot of this on the media because they make you think its something that is so important. Take it from people who have gone through this stage of life already, penis size is just not important. Now I am not going to say there aren't going to be people out there that aren't "Size Queens" but really is that someone you are going to want to be with anyways? Someone who is going to put priority on something as ridiculous as the size of someones penis? I know I wouldn't.
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I don't believe there is a safe way to increase your size safely. You cant make your arms longer so why should you be able to make your penis longer? As mentioned by those who know a lot more than me you can make it seem bigger. But bigger is not always better, it took me a long time to realise this with help from my girlfriend. But both men and women are told by society that 'bigger is better' so its easy to see where this comes from.I believe very few girls are worried about size when what they really want is someone who is good in bed and someone who cares for them!As for your symptoms, have you tried going back to a DR and talking them about it? list those symptoms and see if they think your testosterone is low at this point in time. But if your tests are normal then you really are just normal and you have nothing to worry about. Maybe try exercising to build up your muscles, plus it will make you feel better!
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First, how big are you?Second, how big are your testicles?Third, if you seriously believe yourself to have a disorder that lowers your testosterone and gives you a feminine appearance, then you should consider asking a doctor about sex-chromosome disorders.Finally, seek help for your depression. No matter what changes you can force on your body, you will always feel inadequate unless you become happy with yourself.LQ
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Originally Posted By: LittleQFirst, how big are you?Second, how big are your testicles?Third, if you seriously believe yourself to have a disorder that lowers your testosterone and gives you a feminine appearance, then you should consider asking a doctor about sex-chromosome disorders.Finally, seek help for your depression. No matter what changes you can force on your body, you will always feel inadequate unless you become happy with yourself.LQ This person took the words right out of my mouth. Some wisdom in these words.
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Originally Posted By: tonym@ ntroducingmyselfI am already way over 20 so there wont be any growth. it's also not just about pleasing women. it is about self-esteem. you simply feel silly when you're rather tall and not also have a huge penis. it simply doesn't fit together. everybody has a sense of harmony and symmetry and can tell if something looks good or not.and besides this i think or at least i feel like most men today have bigger dicks than those in the past. just like people today are usually taller the dicks also get bigger. i dont think that 5 inches are still average. and even if they are then there are still many who are way above 5 inches.@ technicali have been to penis enlargement forums a few times and the people there also post pics and some of them really have huge dicks. if this stuff didnt work then why do they have huge dicks? and why should they do this stuff for years like some claim they have if it doesnt work?wether it is safe is another question. i also have concerns that it could cause damage. I certainly do understand what you are experiencing, but you can't look at it that way. The grass will always be greener on the other side. My wife and I are not dissatisfied at my penis length of 6-7 inches, but I have certainly been very dissatisfied in the past about my body height. Similarly to how you feel about the length of your penis, I felt the same about my height.Although statistically I am a bit taller than the average US man, I always felt that I was short and always asked why couldn't I be taller. However, when life was going good, I never really thought about it. But when life was stressful, my height worries came as well.Look, you have probably heard this, but length doesn't really matter and it is true. Girls do say "size matters" but the size they are really looking for is the girth, not really the length. Why else do you think they make female sexual toys wide? If length was really so important, then why don't they just make dildos that are 1 feet long and as skinny as a pencil? That is because length isn't the issue, it is the girth.Just enjoy life, be thankful for things you DO have and just be happy. I mean imagine what people who have micropenises or born with a incorrectly functioning genitalia feel like. Look, if you are average, be proud. If girls ONLY wanted above 5/6 inch penises which is the average length, then we men would be in grave trouble, not to mention the human population would not be growing as much as it is If you're going to argue that in fact most women on the planet are not sexually satisfied, then I think you would just be trying to just find issues with yourself. If that is the case, just take a step back and ponder.Be happy.