Lately I see myself just.. checking a lot of my friends out.. my eyes just rest on intimate spots of their body, and I can't really help it. I have long accepted that I have feelings for guys, but that I would never have expected that I would get turned on by my best friends. I sometimes also have fantasies about them. Anyway, I have sort of had my coming out and they know I'm gay. Yet I don't feel like I should look at them for some reason and don't feel / comfertable / but I still uncontrollably do it.
Checking my friends out?
Same issue for guys with female friends, and vice-versa, I presume.
<i>Our lives begin to end the day we become silent about things that matter.</i> -- MLK
I see nothing wrong with you checking out your male friends. As long as you respect the boundaries of no touching. There is no harm in looking and even fantasizing.
<span style="color: green">"Don't be a Dork! Wrap your Pork!" </span><br /><br />
Just try not to make it ovious.
hahaha, that reminds me, i went through a phase when i was younger where i couldnt help looking at boobs...ALOT, like i litteratly couldnt stop myself. anyway, it was just a phase...
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Well we both check out others and I don't care that my girlfriend does it and she doesn't care if I do it. She will see me looking at another girl's breasts and butt but she doesn't care because she knows I am not going to cheat on her.
I see looking at other guys all the time. We don't want to be to controlling of each other because all that will do is hurt our serious relationship.