As a middle-aged woman...

---

I am a professor at a University.Are you a full professor? It depends on what you teach. What subject do you teach?Are you asking if the attraction is wrong, or if acting on it is wrong? If you're asking about the attraction, if it's just stays in your own head and you don't act on it, it's not wrong.A university professor coming to this forum and asking that question...amazing, eh?

It's not really so amazing. University professors don't know everything about everything. It's indeed very common to be very learned in one field and yet have problems understanding something in another area. Einstein had problems with income tax.

In addition, when they are issues with yourself it's easy not to see the wood for the trees, and an outside observer can have a clearer view.

I might have expected a more precise framing of the initial question, but one never knows.I actually had a (non-tenured) professor for a class in solid state physics who was relieve of his position for dating an under-age girl. I don't recall whether she was a student or what the circumstances were (although she was certainly not 13 or 14). He was fired by the university. Too bad...he was a very good teacher (of a difficult subject).CM> Now, I am not attracted to my students, as I find that they are too old for my tasteYeah....OK.

Why did you bother to post that? cuz i was increadibly bord and feel that im intitled to express my veiw and opinion on things whether or not other ppl have the same oppinion....just cuz im not one of the 1st ppl 2 resond tho the post, dosnt mean im not alowd 2 cuz sum1 else b4 me has the same veiw.jeeze

Oh, don't mind him. He is a little cranky. The internet lets people be all grrr.

As a 35 year old I think thats disgustingly wrong, sorry but i have a kid almost thirteen and to think you are sexually attracted to someone that age, disturbs me - in answer to your question, im my opinion is very wrong!What the hell could a woman of your age see in a boy or boys of that young age, never mind sexually???? can't you get older men interested or something?

Now, I am not attracted to my students, as I find that they are too old for my tasteI'd take that as a tro...ahem, a "no".

My thoughts exactly steve but wanted a rant anyway LOL

A 35 year old attracted to people around my age? Somebody...please help me... im afraid But seriously, that's just nasty, if you ever acted on that you'd be in some serious shit.

In reply to: A 35 year old attracted to people around my age? Somebody...please help me... im afraidBut seriously, that's just nasty, if you ever acted on that you'd be in some serious shit. Yeah. What do you think your parents or your whole town would do if they found out?

But what do you recommend the OP do?

I'm assuming that the OP is from the U.S. or Canada based on his/her writing style, where acting on one's attraction to young adolescents would be highly illegal, and would likely lead to harm of the child (certainly in the West), as well as the end of his/her career, if found out. Not to mention a jail term.Or is the question one of impulse control? Perhaps psychoanalysis could help him/her deal with his/her impulses, and learn to keep a lid on them.

well I'm 15 and I have a crush on Julian so your sin isn't that bad lol.

That makes no sense, I suggest you leave this forum.

exuse you! it makes complete sense. He's almost middle-aged sorta and I'm in my teens and I'm attracted to him. It's the same with her just vice versa. get off my back!

But you wouldn't be arrested if you acted on your dirty dirty thoughts, she would.

my dirty dirty thoughts? you dirty dirty bum. lol I never said anything about doing something with him. ya nasty. I find alot of people attractive doesn't mean I want to "do something" about. party pooperto the OP since BOB is being rude I suggest you try and surpress your feelings. The parents of these young boys would be very disturbed.

Bob is not being rude, you filthy whore.

In reply to: you filthy whore hey thats a little to far dont you think?

Thats only if you believe that I don't adore Abby.